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How do I make my family listen to me when I'm really frustrated and need their support?

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Let them know that you're frustrated. Tell them exactly what the problem is using non-accusatory language. You could say, "I've been really frustrated because I'm struggling right now and it feels like my concerns aren't being heard," or something similar that uses an "I" statement. That way, it won't feel like you're directly accusing them of something. Let them know how much their support means to you so that they understand both the issue and what you need from them!

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How can I be a good leader, or a good role model?

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Be empathetic and a great listener! Speak confidently, clearly, and be direct to grab your audience's attention. People will follow your lead when they feel like you're reliable and know what you're doing.

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How do you get your family to stop being verbally mean?

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If verbal abuse or profanity is an issue, discuss it with your family and suggest family counseling to help communication and to learn new patterns of interacting.

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What if the person keeps talking over me?

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Ask them to politely stop and if that does not work, seek additional assistance.

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How do I make my friend listen to me when she keeps interrupting and shouting?

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Tell her in a calm voice, "Please let me finish what I'm trying to say, and then it will be your turn to speak." If she still refuses to let talk, say something like, "I'm just going to give you some space to calm down." And then walk away. Try to talk to her again later.

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