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  • Question
    What should I do when they partner up?
    Community Answer
    You can do whatever you want. For example, you can send them on a date or have them sleep in one bed. When is their relationship really good, they can even have a marriage.
  • Question
    How do I make a romantic interest in the Sims a boyfriend?
    Community Answer
    Make your Sim "propose going steady," and they will be boyfriend and girlfriend.
  • Question
    What does it mean if there isn't a romantic option?
    Community Answer
    If your Sim is a teen talking to a young adult, or vice versa, there won't be a romantic option. This is also the case if the two Sims are related.
  • Question
    If my Sim is already in a relationship, is there any way to get him out of it?
    Community Answer
    Click on the on your Sim's partner that he wants to break up with. Click on the "mean" category, and there should be an option to break up.
  • Question
    How can I make Sims have sex?
    Georgiee Alicorn
    Community Answer
    You can click on a double bed and click "woohoo with..." or you can click on the romantic category of a Sim and click "woohoo with..." and then they can have sex.
  • Question
    What if they are married?
    Community Answer
    If a Sim is already married, they will reject romantic interactions from other Sims besides their spouse.
  • Question
    How can I get two Sims married in The Sims 4?
    Community Answer
    First they need to be boyfriend and girlfriend, as described in this article, then you'll need to get him to propose (under the "Romance" section). After that, go into one of their phones, click "Social event" and then click "Wedding."
  • Question
    Are same-sex relationships possible in the Sims 4?
    Community Answer
    Yes, you just can't try for a baby with them. (There are cheats and mods that allow two Sims of the same sex to be able to have kids though.)
  • Question
    After you are boyfriend and girlfriend, how do you become engaged?
    Megm26
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    When you have high enough romance and friendly levels, there will be an option to propose under romance. Make sure both sims have high relationship levels with each other, or else one might reject the others proposal. Also, sims with a noncommittal trait are more likely to reject proposals.
  • Question
    Is there any way for children to fall in love, or just adults?
    Community Answer
    Only adults can fall in love in the Sims 4 unless you download the child romance mod.
  • Question
    Why is it so hard to get a boyfriend on the Sims 4?
    Community Answer
    It could be because the male Sim has the "unflirty" or "noncommital" trait.
  • Question
    How can I get my Sims fiance to break the engagement with me?
    Community Answer
    Be a total jerk to your undesired fiance. Soon there should be an option to kick him out of your household.
  • Question
    Can a brother and sister have a love relationship?
    Community Answer
    No. They won't be able to.
  • Question
    What if they get bugged out and they are best friends but have no romance option?
    GamingWithTemmie
    Community Answer
    Try resetting the game. If that doesn't help, go into origin if you're on PC and click the gear icon and repair the game. Doing this won't erase any saves.
  • Question
    What do I do if I have the highest possible friendship level, but can't see the option for dating/asking to be boyfriend or girlfriend?
    GamingWithTemmie
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    You also have to get their romantic bar up about halfway before you can ask them to move in or date.
  • Question
    What do I do if there's no option to be boyfriend or girlfriend in the Sims 4?
    Community Answer
    The romance bar has to be filled halfway, otherwise it won't work. If the bar is at least half full and you don't have the option, try resetting the game.
  • Question
    What do you do when they reject your offer to move in with you?
    Community Answer
    If the other Sim rejects the offer, they will respond angrily. However, a menu will still pop up, allowing you to merge the households.
  • Question
    Is The Sims good to play?
    Community Answer
    It can be fun for those who are fans of simulator games, as there are a lot of different opportunities to explore and interact with other Sims within the game, it accommodates many play styles, and there are a multitude of different goals. Fans of RPGs will likely enjoy the character development and advancement. However, it may not be ideal for those accustomed to action/FPS games.
  • Question
    How do I get 2 Sims engaged?
    Community Answer
    When you have high enough romance and friendly levels, there will be an option to propose under romance. Make sure both sims have high relationship levels with each other, or else one might reject the others proposal. Also, sims with a noncommittal trait are more likely to reject proposals.
  • Question
    If they are at 100% romantic and 100% friendships then how to get them engaged?
    Happygreengirl12
    Community Answer
    Have one Sim choose "Propose" under the romantic category of the other.
  • Question
    When you create the characters and you make them husband and wife, how would you engage with them?
    Community Answer
    You need to have them divorce (mean section), then you can start their relationship over.
  • Question
    Can you flirt with people older than you, or do they have to be the same age in order to be your boyfriend or girlfriend?
    FaeFae
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    Teenagers can only do romantic interactions with teenagers. Young adults or older can do romantic interactions with young adults or older. It is possible to have a teenager be in a romantic relationship with a young adult or older, but they can't interact romantically. This happens when two teenagers are in a romantic relationship and one ages up before their partner.
  • Question
    How do you get to the MC command center?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    Use Ctrl+Shift+C.
  • Question
    I keep trying to make my Sims go on dates, but after a few seconds, the date just ends saying "unsuccessful". How do I fix that?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    Complete the date goals. They are probably in the top left corner of the screen.
  • Question
    Can my Sim only date NPC Sims, or can they date other Sims that I made?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    Your Sim can date both. Actually, it is a bit easier to have two Sims that you made date because you can make them both flirt with each other.
  • Question
    Is there a way to increase the possibility that they will say yes to a date?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    Dates are usually accepted if you have some romance. If you keep being denied, try to build up the pink bar more. However, dates are not strictly necessary for a romantic relationship or even asking them to be your boyfriend or girlfriend.
  • Question
    Does this work with two teens?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    Yes! However, they will not be able to get married or pregnant without mods.
  • Question
    What do I do if the Sim is not romantically interested in my Sim?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    In that case, you can't date that Sim without cheats. To make them interested, activate cheats and type in cas.fulleditmode. Then enter CAS for that Sim, where you can change their romantic interests.
  • Question
    What if your sims have full romance and full friendship, and ask to be girlfriend/boyfriend is popping up?
    FaeFae
    Community Answer
    This will make your Sims boyfriends/girlfriends. You do not have to do this if you do not want to.
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