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How do you tell if a coworker is attracted to you?

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Licensed Relationship Therapist

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See how much time he spends around you compared to other people. If he's spending a lot of his free time with you, there's a good chance that he's interested. He might also ask you a lot of questions about yourself.

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What if we’re in different classes and don’t see each other very much?

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You can still see how he acts when you do see him, like when you're walking through the halls or after class. And, if you really want to know if he likes you, try exchanging numbers! If he's into you, he'll be super excited about getting your contact info.

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I like a guy and he's constantly staring at me in class. I kind of want him to know, so I stare back. He also laughs ALL THE TIME around me, but he never tries to touch me. Maybe he's shy?

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Some people just don't love touching others, and that's okay! If he's staring at you and laughing around you, those are 2 great signs that he's into you. Try sitting close to him and leaning in as you talk to signal that you're also interested.

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He is showing all the signs of attraction but just doesn’t seem eager to talk unless I talk to him. He already initiated plans for our next meet up, so I'm confused!

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He might just be shy. Some people aren't very good at telling others that they like them. The fact that he wants to hang out with you again is a really good sign! Give him the benefit of the doubt, and make sure he feels comfortable enough to open up to you.

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