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I am 15 and my boyfriend dumped me because he said that I should change myself, should I?

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No. Unless your boyfriend was pointing out behavior that is demonstrably wrong, i.e, telling you to stop hurting people, gossiping, bullying, etc., he has no right to ask you to change. Let him go and find someone who appreciates you for who you are.

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My best friend is so pretty, and I look stupid next to her. How can I fix that without a ton of makeup?

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You don't need to fix anything. So what if she is prettier? That doesn't mean you are ugly. You can put on a little makeup, but don't change yourself.

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How do I get noticed by a guy I like, when my parents are super strict about me wearing no makeup to make myself prettier?

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Try to casually strike up a conversation with him. Or become friends with his friends so you both end up hanging out in the same group. He'll notice someone new to the group. Also, try to find out what his interests are to see if you two have some things in common.

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I am 11 years old and I'm going into 6th grade. How do I get a boy to like me if I am unattractive?

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Honestly, just try to make friends with him. Try to maybe find out what he likes. Just be yourself.

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I'm 13, and this guy and I are best friends and I can't tell if he's flirting with me or not. How do I make myself more attractive to him?

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Just be yourself and show him that you're open all the time. If he likes you, then he'll come to you.

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I'm only 13, and I want to attract a boy. What are some other things I can try?

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Try make yourself stand out, but not too much. You can wear make up, try a new hair style, keep your skin healthy, and hang out with people he is also friends with.

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I just feel my lack of confidence due to my appearance. I wear expensive clothes but my face has a bit of acne, what can I do?

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If a guy likes you, he will not care if you have acne. Your acne will clear up eventually. It's who you are as a person that matters most.

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I am 18 and my boyfriend left me for another girl because she is more attractive. Should I change myself?

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No.

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How can I make some girl jealous?

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Depending on who you and the girl are attracted to, just act like it doesn't bother you, and be happy and carefree. Try to flaunt your qualities, but be subtle.

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The guy I like is friends with a lot of girls. How do I get him to notice me? I want to stand out.

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Make sure to spend time with him and let him get to know you. Let him know you as a really good friend. Then when you are going through something hard he will want to help you. Even if he doesn't like you romantically, you will have gained a really good friend. Getting him to know you could lead to a romantic relationship in time.

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I'm 11 and can't really tell if my friend is flirting with me or not. Any tips or ideas?

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Just be yourself, and then look for subtle signs like the slight touch of your hand, or if he doesn't act with you like he does with his other friends.

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How do I make a boy want to be my boyfriend (in middle school)?

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Just try to find out what he likes to do and what he's interested in. See what the two of you have in common, and ask him if he wants to hang out.

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How can I get a boy to find me more attractive without wearing makeup?

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It's best to just be yourself. If he doesn't want you for you, then he's not worth it.

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I'm 11 and I'm not allowed to wear makeup. What else can I do?

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Ask your mom if you can get LipSmackers lip balm. The Dr. Pepper flavor has a little bit of a pink tint. You can even dot a little on your cheeks for a touch of color. Don't forget--everyone looks better when they smile.

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I am 15 and I really like this boy. How do I make myself more attractive?

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Be yourself, at all times. That is the most attractive trait to ever have.

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I'm 14 and tall. How do I get girls to like me?

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Just be yourself. It doesn't matter how tall you are. The right girl will like you for who you are.

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How can I make a girl attracted to me if I'm a girl?

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In this case, you'll need to see if she's into girls first. If not, you'd be better off as friends. If yes, then start off as friends and just be yourself.

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I'm 14 and trying to impress this boy. I want him to go out with me but I'm not sure he will unless I change my clothes, hair, etc., any tips/advice?

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Don't do anything you don't want to. If he is right for you, he will be attracted to you naturally and as you are. You really shouldn't change for him.

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I'm 14, and my friends joke around saying I'm ugly and fat, what do I do to make myself pretty and thin?

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Those sound like really bad friends, and chances are that those rude comments are not true! Tell your friends that they're hurting your feelings when they say those things, and if they don't stop, find better friends!

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What outfits would most suit me if I have no shape?

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Try to work with your best features, then decide. For example, you might have glorious legs, so you could wear shorts or leggings. If you have an amazingly fit and thin waist, you should wear something that shows your waist off. If you've an ample bosom, make it the feature of your looks.

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I'm not allowed makeup, so is there any way I can make myself look like I'm wearing makeup when I'm not?

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Clear mascara and lip gloss are always good. Wear minimal concealer (only on problem areas) and a little blush.

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I've had a lot of people say that my long hair is gross (even though I take very good care of it) just because it is long. I love it but my parents and others don't. Should I cut it?

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Only if other people's opinions are very important to you. Otherwise, wear your hair the way you like.

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I feel like I don't fit in at school because I'm not skinny like most of the girls. What should I do to feel more confident?

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"Not fitting in" isn't really such a bad thing. People who "fit in" sometimes lack confidence, too. As long as you're at a healthy weight for your age, it shouldn't matter if you're skinny or not. Meanwhile, look for the good in others. Some of them will get the message and see the good in you.

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I'm 14 and I really like this one boy in class. I've been crushing over him forever. How do I make him notice me?

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Become friends with him by striking up casual conversations based on mutual interests if you know of any. Greet him in the hallways and be friendly!

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