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    Is it normal to plan your own funeral?
    David I. Jacobson
    Funeral Home Director
    David I. Jacobson is the founder of Chicago Jewish Funerals, an independent Jewish owned funeral provider that evolved into two funeral homes in the Chicagoland area. With over 30 years of experience serving families, David is a leading expert on Kavod Hamet, the Jewish traditions of honoring and respecting the dead. David is an active funeral director that serves people planning and in need of funerals, lecturing to congregations, community groups, and schools extensively about the values of the Jewish funeral as well as the dying process and the value of one’s legacy. 
    Funeral Home Director
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    Yes, but you don't have to do it alone. A good funeral director will help you decide on the options that fit your budget as well as your final wishes. If you feel like someone is pressuring you into buying the most expensive options, you might consider choosing another funeral home.
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    How do you plan your own funeral?
    David I. Jacobson
    Funeral Home Director
    David I. Jacobson is the founder of Chicago Jewish Funerals, an independent Jewish owned funeral provider that evolved into two funeral homes in the Chicagoland area. With over 30 years of experience serving families, David is a leading expert on Kavod Hamet, the Jewish traditions of honoring and respecting the dead. David is an active funeral director that serves people planning and in need of funerals, lecturing to congregations, community groups, and schools extensively about the values of the Jewish funeral as well as the dying process and the value of one’s legacy. 
    Funeral Home Director
    Expert Answer
    When you're planning your funeral, the most important things to consider are whether there are any religious traditions that are important to you and where you want to be buried. When you're making the arrangements, also consider who will be your healthcare power of attorney, and how you'll distribute your belongings after you're gone.
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    How can I use human ashes creativity?
    Community Answer
    You can have them made into a diamond or shot into space.
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    Can I have my son's ashes buried with me in a national cemetery?
    Community Answer
    Yes, as long as they are in a box, jar, or some other small container.
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    I would like to start a business helping people with their final wishes, from planning with them to carrying it out upon there deaths. How can I get started?
    Community Answer
    Most funeral homes have employees who do this. Contact your local mortuary and speak with them to get an idea of what they're job is like and what, if any, education or certifications might be needed.
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    Can my widow keep my ashes until she dies and then have my urn put in her coffin?
    Community Answer
    As long as you have someone who is in charge of making those arrangements after both of you are gone, then this shouldn't be an issue.
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    What is a burial shroud?
    Community Answer
    Shroud usually refers to an item, such as a cloth, that covers or protects some other object. The term is most often used in reference to burial sheets, mound shroud, grave clothes, winding-cloths or winding-sheets, such as the famous Shroud of Turin or Tachrichim, that Jews are dressed in for burial.
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    How to organize a funeral in Egypt?
    Ainsley
    Community Answer
    The funerary prayers (called janazah) always take place in a Mosque, with an Imam being in charge. After the Imam finishes the janazah, the men take the body to the mausoleum of the family. Similarly to Islamic traditions around the world, the body has to always face Mecca.
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