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I want to talk her but she is always with her friends. What should I do?

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You have two really good options here. First, you can just approach her and her friends at the same time and try to befriend all of them. That would be a kind of long-term approach, since it may take some time to get to know her and her friends. The other thing you can do is try to talk to her on social media. That might be a really easy way to connect if you really can't find a way to talk one-on-one in person.

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How do I tell a girl I want to have sex with her?

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If you aren't dating her, this isn't something you should ever do. If you are in a committed relationship, just have an open conversation about it. If you aren't ready to talk about sex, it might be a sign that you aren't ready to have sex.

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How can I talk to a girl in order to make her my girlfriend?

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Having feelings for someone is exciting, but try not to get ahead of yourself. Just focus on getting to know her. Spend time together, hang out, and start talking regularly. Once you know her a little better, ask her if she wants to see a movie with you sometime! It's hard, but you can't rush this.

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But what if they turn out to be gay?

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If you had feelings for her, and she doesn't have any romantic feelings for you (regardless of her sexual orientation), then it simply means that you have a really cool friend!

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Do girls like tall or short guys?

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There's a stereotype out there that women prefer tall guys, but honestly, your height doesn't mean anything. Any girl worth hanging out with isn't going to judge you if you're a little short or tall. Try not to worry too much about this!

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I'm assuming these tips still apply if you're a girl talking to girls?

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Totally. It's easy to imagine that you need to treat boys and girls differently, but it's not really true. People like to be treated with respect, compassion, and empathy, regardless of their gender.

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What should I say if she's gets super personal really quickly?

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If you aren't comfortable discussing something, just say so. You could explain that it's a sensitive subject for you, or you aren't really ready to discuss it. Just let her know that it doesn't have anything to do with her if you go this route. If you are comfortable discussing it but you're just thrown off guard, try to roll with it. Be vulnerable, open, and genuine. There's nothing wrong with a deep conversation!

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How do I get her number?

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Just ask for it! It's that simple. If you want to come up with a roundabout way of doing it, you could always act like you need a study buddy or something like that. Whatever you do, don't go grab her number from someone else. She's just going to be thrown off that you got her number without asking her, and it probably won't go well.

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