How to Become a Geisha

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Geisha are professional entertainers who are well-versed in the high arts and culture of Japan. (They are not to be confused with prostitutes.) To join the world of the geisha (karyūkai), you’ll undergo years of rigorous training starting in your teenage years. [1] Early training (shikomi) involves chores to build discipline and respect. Eventually, training progresses to focus on mastery of the traditional Japanese arts and hospitality skills. After completing the apprentice geisha (maiko) stage, you’ll debut as a full-fledged geisha (geiko) during your erikae ceremony.

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Training as a Shikomi

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  1. Traditionally, a girl could be boarded to geisha house (okiya) during childhood. Today, training to become an apprentice geisha (maiko) starts at roughly age 14 or 15 with the shikomi phase. [2]
    • You must be introduced to the okasan or proprietress of an okiya before beginning your training. She will decide whether or not to accept you into her okiya.
    • While geishas are traditionally women of Japanese origin, a few non-Japanese women have completed geisha training.
    • If you are in your later teens or even early 20s, it’s possible that an okasan may accept you but it’s not typical. [3]
    • It used to be common for males to train as geishas (taikomochi), but it is not common today.
  2. Once you’ve found an okiya, you’ll live and work there until you become a meiko. The skihomi phase can last roughly 10 months. You’ll most likely have to share a room with the okasan. [4]
    • Kyoto is the center of the geisha world so it’s likely that you’ll be living in one of Kyoto’s geisha districts. [5]
    • It’s natural to experience some homesickness during this period.
    • Some okiya may allow young girls to undergo a brief trial period. Try this if possible, so you can see how you feel after 1 or 2 weeks at the okiya.
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  3. As a shikomi-san, or girl-in-training, you’ll support the okiya by doing daily chores that she assigns to you. Tasks may include cleaning the rooms of the okiya, washing the bathrooms, doing the laundry, and setting tables for dinner parties. [6]
    • The work isn’t glamorous but it will teach you discipline which is an essential part of your training.
  4. You’ll recite specific phrases when your okasan and other geishas enter and leave the okiya. Additionally, you’ll practice discipline and respect through daily actions like kneeling and bowing. Your okasan will define which greetings and actions you are to practice.
    • You may assist meikos and geikos in getting dressed. [7]
    • You might be asked to kneel and say “Welcome back, madam” whenever a senior sister returns to the okiya.
    • During this process, resist the temptation to speak out of turn or use casual language like other teenage girls do.
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Apprenticing as a Maiko

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  1. Before becoming an apprentice geisha (maiko), you’ll search for an oneesan or “older sister.” [8] She will act as a mentor and teacher for roughly the last month of your training. [9] You’ll then enter the brief “watch and learn” minarai phase of your training where you’ll join and observe your oneesan during events and ceremonies.
    • This phase will give you some real-world experience and will expose you to some potential clients. [10]
    • Your okasan can help you match up with an oneesan. She should be an experienced geisha who is willing to support and sponsor you.
    • Your oneesan doesn’t need to come from the same okiya as you, but she can be.
  2. Once you’ve completed the necessary shikomi training, you’ll be promoted to the apprentice geisha phase. This transition typically occurs by age 17. Your okasan will decide when each member of her okiya is ready for their own ceremony. [11]
    • As part of this ceremony, you’ll be escorted to visit your various teachers and tea houses to participate in a cup exchange ritual (sansankudo) with your oneesan as well as other geiko and the senior maiko from your okiya. [12]
    • You’ll wear the most formal attire, including a long, trailing kimono and a darari obi that features a crest identifying your okiya.
    • Your okiya will be brightly decorated in red and white to celebrate your debut.
  3. As a maiko, you’ll spend hours attending classes (kaburenjo) to practice and develop your skills each day. You’ll focus on include singing, dancing, and playing musical instruments. Additionally, you will become skilled in calligraphy and flower arrangement (ikebana). Beyond these art forms, you’ll focus on mastering the art of conversation and hosting tea ceremonies.
    • Instruments you may practice include taiko drums and the 3-stringed shamisen. [13]
    • Choose whether you want to specialize in either dancing or the musical arts. [14] A geisha who specializes in music is called a jikata while one who specializes in dance is called a tachikata.
  4. As a maiko, you’ll wear ornate long-sleeved hikizuri kimono, a heavily-adorned momoware hairstyle with your natural hair, and traditional makeup. [15] Your ensemble will feature a red collar. You will be responsible for doing your own makeup, but you’ll visit a skilled hairdresser each week to get your hair styled. [16]
    • Accessories you’ll wear include ornate hair pins (kanzashi) and platformed wooden sandals (okobo).
    • As a maiko, you’ll put chalk-white makeup (oshiroi) on your face and neck, but you’ll leave the nape of your neck uncovered.
    • You’ll paint your lips red and will outline your eyes and brows with red and black makeup.
    • Sleep with your head supported by a takamakura pillow to preserve your hairstyle.
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Debuting as a Geiko

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  1. When you’ve completed the maiko and minarai phases, you’ll be ready to debut as a full-fledged geisha. Your erikae or “turning of the collar” ceremony will take place by age 20. [17] It involves changing your appearance from that of a maiko to that of a geiko.
    • During the week of your erikae ceremony, you will wear a special hairstyle and ensemble for this ceremony, which may reference your region of origin. [18]
    • During the ceremony itself, you will transition from a maiko’s red collar to a geiko’s white collar.
    • Additionally, your hairstyle will be undone and you’ll cover your natural hair with a wig.
  2. Your oneesan will help you in choosing a professional name to represent your new career as an artist and entertainer. Pick one that references your oneesan in some way and places you within the lineage of geisha.
    • Choose a unique name that illustrates your beauty and grace, includes aspirational well-wishes for good fortune or health, or includes an alluring reference to the splendor of the karyūkai.
    • For example, a meiko with an oneesan named Tamaryô (Jewel Dragon) may choose the name Tamakichi (Jewel of Fortune). [19]
  3. You’ll now wear tsumesode kimono with shorter sleeves and less flamboyant patterns. Additionally, you’ll be able to wear a wig in the shimada mage hairstyle and won’t have to style your natural hair. [20]
    • As a geiko, you will wear the white and red makeup less frequently. This is partly to distinguish you from the geishas-in-training and partly to showcase your natural beauty.
    • Once you are an experienced geiko or have entered your 30s, you’ll only wear the white and red makeup for special occasions.
  4. Since the costs of your training were covered by your okasan, you’ll repay these debts by working as a geiko. Entertain your clients at dinner parties, tea ceremonies, and performances. [21]
    • Work on generating a loyal base who will pay the full, high rates for your services.
    • You’ll participate in public festivals and dances (odori) as well as private events with your clients.
    • Once you’ve repaid your training debts, you may continue on as a geisha, mentoring younger trainees and perhaps eventually becoming an okasan.
    • If you prefer, you can transition to another career after your debts are settled. Working as a geisha is not a lifelong commitment.
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