I can't talk to him without getting nervous 💗

GuineapigsRcute
04/15/25 9:50pm
I'm sure I'm not the one but I need tips. I always say "I can do it" then I give up the second I see him!
I don't know what to talk to him about... The only time I see him is at our homeschool group and I just have no idea what to say 💡
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04/15/25 9:51pm
If you want to feel less nervous around your crush, try starting small: next time you see him, plan to sit near him, even if you don't talk. The time after that, plan to say hello or smile. Gradually work up to a full conversation (and you can start with small talk here: "How was your weekend?" "Did you finish the homework?").

Not only will it be easier to overcome your anxiety in baby steps, but each friendly interaction (a smile, a greeting) will give him a chance to respond. Getting a smile or a "hello" back from him may give you more confidence to keep talking to him. Good luck!
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Amy Galindo
04/16/25 3:51pm
Chat I got a crush, he is so cuteeeeee But no way i cant talk to him. he's so pop but not me :(
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GuineapigsRcute
04/16/25 4:46pm
IKR!!!!!!
It's sooooo hardddddd!!!
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Amy Galindo
04/17/25 1:16am
Yeah! You know boys these days they just minding their own business if you be hi how are you or try talking to them or whatever they will ignore and probably just bad mouth and be like she likes me ewww or you know. You just gotta let them come to you.
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