What should I get my girlfriend for her birthday?
I want to make my girlfriend's birthday special but don't know what to get her or do for her. What would be meaningful? What do girls like? I want so hard to make it something nice but I just have no idea what to do.
Focus on two things: surprise and thoughtfulness. Create something that really shows you took time to consider your girlfriend. Romance isn't the same for each person, so consider what your girlfriend likes and what she would enjoy. While one person might love flowers, a different individual may not find that romantic. Taking time to observe and ask your girlfriend at different moments what she likes will help you design a romantic birthday outing that is sure to wow her. As you date, always be taking note of things she likes or mentions. You can even create a secret, running list so you can consult it when her birthday comes around.
I might make a card, buy a card that's empty, or get a card personalized. And then I would write how I feel about her on the card. Some heartfelt words can mean a lot to your girlfriend.
You can also gift something that is a memory you shared together or something that's relevant to what resonates with your girlfriend. Try to find a more thought provoking emotional gift. You can do a painting, you can make a poem, or you could even make a collage of pictures. She'll appreciate something that allows her to reminisce about all the wonderful memories you've made together.
You can also gift something that is a memory you shared together or something that's relevant to what resonates with your girlfriend. Try to find a more thought provoking emotional gift. You can do a painting, you can make a poem, or you could even make a collage of pictures. She'll appreciate something that allows her to reminisce about all the wonderful memories you've made together.
Ngl strangers on the internet should not know what your girlfriend wants for birthday better than you. Think about what your girlfriend likes. What are her interests and hobbies? Her favorite places to shop? Her favorite places to go? Her favorite foods? How she likes to spend her time? Little things that make her happy? If you can think about the answers to these questions, you'll have some ideas for gifts you could get her for her birthday that she would enjoy. If you're struggling to answer these questions, I'm gonna be honest: you need to pay more attention to your girlfriend and get to know her better. Depending on how far away her birthday is, you might still have time to observe her or ask her questions so you can get a better idea of what she might like for her birthday. But try not to make it too obvious.
If you're struggling to figure out what to get your girlfriend for her birthday, you can also try asking her friends and family for ideas. When you reach out to them, don't just go "What should I get [girlfriend] for her birthday?" The way I'd phrase it is something like "Hey [family/friend's name]! [Girlfriend]'s birthday is coming up and I was thinking of getting her [xyz], but wanted to check with you about what you're getting her so we don't accidentally get her similar things. What ideas did you have?"
That way it makes you look considerate and doesn't make you look like you're struggling and desperate for ideas. If they answer, you'll get one example of a gift someone close to her is getting her and the person will also probably be happy to give you feedback on your idea or give you additional ideas you can draw from.
That way it makes you look considerate and doesn't make you look like you're struggling and desperate for ideas. If they answer, you'll get one example of a gift someone close to her is getting her and the person will also probably be happy to give you feedback on your idea or give you additional ideas you can draw from.
Your girlfriend is not going to necessarily like the same things as my girlfriend but I can share some of my experiences with getting her gifts. Last year I got her an organizer and mini trash can for her car and she loves it. Whenever we drove places together, she used to always apologize about how messy her car is and it would take her a while to find her things. Now, she's able to throw away trash right away so it doesn't pile up and it's easy for her to find her stuff because there's a place for everything. All you have to do is pay attention to the things your girlfriend says and does, and if you hear a problem or a want, make a note of it and get a gift that solves that problem or fulfills that want.
That doesn't extend to cleaning supplies though. For instance, steel wool for scrubbing pans and pots might make her life easier, just like a car trash can, but it's way less romantic and might make her feel insulted. If you need steel wool to clean your pans, just buy it separately and NOT as a gift.
That doesn't extend to cleaning supplies though. For instance, steel wool for scrubbing pans and pots might make her life easier, just like a car trash can, but it's way less romantic and might make her feel insulted. If you need steel wool to clean your pans, just buy it separately and NOT as a gift.
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Reader Tips from How to Make Your Girlfriend Have the Best Birthday
Think carefully about her interests and hobbies. Get her a thoughtful gift within your budget. Make an effort with your appearance to show you care. Prepare your space nicely and pick out a movie she'd enjoy if she's coming over. Most importantly, tell her "I love you."
If money's tight, level with her that you can't splurge this year, but still make the day special. Surprise her with a more modest gift from the heart. She'll appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Grand gestures can be incredibly meaningful, especially early on. Even if it's just a sweet card, make your feelings clear. Sincerity matters more than extravagance.
Spend quality time together, either out on the town or cozy at home. The point is celebrating each other, not how much you spend.
Ask those close to her for gift ideas if you're unsure. They know her well and will be happy to help you get it right.
Reader Tips from How to Surprise Your Girlfriend on Her Birthday
If your girlfriend misses her parents and they live far away, consider reaching out to them to see if they can come visit. Not only will your girlfriend love the surprise, but you'll also score points with your girlfriend's family!
Surprises are great, but if your girlfriend likes to sleep in, don't plan something for 8 am. What I'm getting at is that you have to take your girlfriend's tastes and preferences into account if you're going to make her happy.
Reader Tips from How to Surprise Your Girlfriend
You don't have to surprise her by doing something with her. You could always learn how to do something and surprise her with your new talent! You might learn how to play the piano and surprise her with a beautiful love song, or learn how to say "I love you" in her native language.
If you need help coming up with ways to surprise her, ask one of her parents or one of her best friends if there's something she's always wanted to do on her birthday but never has.
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