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Are you ready for the next steps in a relationship but aren't sure if the girl you like is on the same page? Some girls will tell you how they feel right away, but your partner might let you know she’s invested in a more subtle way. Fortunately, there are some common things you can look out for to get a better idea of how she feels.
Here are 12 signs that a girl is serious about your relationship.
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QuestionHow can I tell if a girl likes me based on body language?Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.If she's leaning in to talk to you, she goes out of her way to be close to you, or she finds reasons to "accidentally" touch you, it's a good sign that she's interested in you romantically.
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QuestionShe says she loves me but it doesn't always feel like it. Why?Cher Gopman is the Founder of NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Cher is a Certified Life Coach, a former psychiatric nurse, and her work has been featured on Inside Edition, Fox, ABC, VH1, and The New York Post.People show their affection in all sorts of different ways. Some people express their love through physical touch, while others identify more with giving, or words of affirmation. If she says she loves you but it doesn't feel like it all of the time, try to look for those little signs you may be missing. She may be expressing her love without you really picking up on it!
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- When you’re in doubt, just come right out and ask her if she’s serious about the relationship. Let her know how you feel and ask if she feels the same. [19] X Research sourceThanks
- If she doesn’t want something serious, it’s okay to feel hurt but don’t take it personally. Acknowledge how you’re feeling so you can move forward to a new relationship. [20] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to sourceThanks
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Warnings
- If she tells you that she’s not looking for anything serious directly, take her word for it and don’t get upset if she doesn’t want a committed relationship. [21] X Research sourceThanks
- Watch out for relationship red flags, such as her not being present when you’re together, not wanting to meet your friends or family, or refusing to talk about the future. [22] X Research sourceThanks
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