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What should I text a girl I like?

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If you have seen her recently, then try to come up with an excuse to start a conversation based on your last interaction. For example, if you were recently at a party together, text her something like "Hey, how was the rest of your night?" If you are in a class together, try something like "Are you ready for the test on Monday?"

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When should I ask a girl out over text?

Joshua Pompey
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Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.

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You may have heard advice that you need to wait 2-3 days so that you don't come off as desperate. This is kind of outdated advice today. Since everyone is carrying their phone with them at all times, it's perfectly fine to ask a girl on a date the day after you first met her or exchanged numbers. Don't worry; it won't make you seem desperate if you ask!

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How do I know if a girl likes me?

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It's not always easy to tell, but she might talk to you more than others, maintain eye contact, laugh a lot at your jokes, respond quickly to your texts, etc. You could also try casually touching her on the arm or leg during conversation and see how she responds. If she smiles, touches you back, etc. these are good signs.

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All of these tips rely on not knowing the other person very well. What could I do if I've known her for a long time?

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If you have been friends for a while, ease into it slowly. Drop subtle hints that you are interested and gauge her reaction. You don't want to sabotage the friendship you have developed over the years.

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What if I don't have the budget for dates like bowling, concerts, arcades, etc.?

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Try the methods in Ask a Girl out on an Affordable Date Without Looking Cheap .

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I asked my old classmate to be my girlfriend through WhatsApp, she replied that she will have these things only after she gets to a college. What can I do?

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Respect her wishes! Education is the top priority. When she gets into college, ask her again.

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I asked out my female friend of 5 years and she the date sounded very nice and she kindly declined and said I dont want to date lol. I need some insight on why she might have put the lol in the text?

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It sounds like she may have been embarrassed.

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