Q&A for How to Attract a Libra Man

Libra's love flattery. Tell a Libra that they're attractive and compliment their clothes. If you compliment them, you'll have a Libra flirting and blushing in your face. They not only like to be complimented on their looks, but also how they approach life. They are very diplomatic. It's important to validate this quality as well when relating to them.

The Libra man can be a jealous type and with this trait, comes possessiveness. The jealous side of this usually easygoing and mild natured man is due to the proximity of the sign to Scorpio, a renowned jealous and possessive sign. A Libran man experiencing jealousy may display this by being highly emotional and he may try to check up on you and demand to know what you’ve been doing every minute of the day. He may even turn up unannounced, just to reassure himself that all is well. To deal with this, remind him he’s the only one and appeal to his romantic side to show him he’s treasured. If you feel he’s getting too possessive though, tell him and perhaps reconsider whether it’s worth the effort if he cannot trust you.

Libra men like romance, art and fashion. He’s a gentle and easygoing guy, so he’ll love evening strolls under the moonlight, cuddling a handful of puppies and checking out a sensuous food experience at a traditional restaurant in a quiet corner of town. He’s deeply loyal and if he falls in love, he’s likely to see you as marriage material too. The Libra man needs validation of his appearance, so be sure to let him know he looks great. On the downside, a Libra man thwarted can throw a childish tantrum and sulk until things come back to his way of thinking; be careful of his jealous and possessive side too.

A Libra man is loyal and picky. He’ll take his time to decide he loves you but if he makes that choice, he’s already planning the wedding and your life story together. It may differ prior to his realization you’re the one though, and before he makes a commitment, then there is a chance he may go out with other girls. This will only happen because he’s undecided though; it’ll stop once he’s made the decision to settle down for good.

The Libra man is compatible with women or men whose signs are: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius. Slightly less compatible but still good signs include: Capricorn and Cancer. It will also depend on what else is ascendant within both of your signs before making a final conclusion.

Intense interest is a sign of a genuine desire to get to know you, and with a Libra, this pursuit is absolutely serious. Be open to listening and engaging further, to see where things might lead.

Libra men are good at hiding their feelings unless they want them known; this is part of their "tread carefully until sure" mode of operating. Once he has decided you’re the one he loves though, his guard will come down and his feelings will be expressed freely. You’ll definitely know he’s in love with you when the time comes, and so will everyone else!

If a woman hurt a Libra man in the past, she’s forgiven, unless she’s rude enough to impose herself back into his life for any reason, in which case he’ll defend himself or ignore her completely. He won’t play victim and he won’t sit about ruminating over her. He’ll move on to find happier pastures where he can return to his gentler and more easygoing self. You’re lucky: he won’t hold a grudge and therefore, you won’t be listening to endless stories about the woman who did him wrong!

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Scorpio is not compatible with Libra, and therefore it’s unsurprising that you felt awkward and anxious around the Libra man. It is interesting you felt intimidated, as often it’s Scorpio who brings out that feeling in others. It is possible his ascendant phase includes a good dash of Scorpio too, and perhaps you were encountering his infantile, angry and scorned side rather than his usual gentle nature. Perhaps look at what you did that may have been misconstrued: Was you eye contact too intense without natural breaks? Did you mock his appearance unwittingly? Did you say something that caused him to feel his work role wasn’t as worthy as yours? Be careful with this relationship; act professional and keep at arm’s length.