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  • Question
    What color turns a man on?
    Chloée Ohayon-Crosby
    Fashion Stylist
    Chloée Ohayon-Crosby is a Costume Designer and Wardrobe Specialist in Los Angeles, California. With over eight years of experience in fashion consulting, Chloée specializes in personal, film, theater, and commercial styling as well as image consulting and costume design. Chloée has worked as an assistant designer for the distinguished fashion house Chloée and as a freelance stylist with Glamour Italia. Chloée studied Fine/Studio Arts at the Ecole Nationale Supérieure des Beaux-Arts and Fashion Design and Merchandising at the world renowned ESMOD École Supérieure des Arts in Paris, France.
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    Both red and black are sexually stimulating colors. Studies have shown that wearing these colors can make a woman appear more attractive and sexually desirable to men. Just be sure to choose a shade of red that complements your complexion!
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    How can I be more attractive?
    Chloée Ohayon-Crosby
    Fashion Stylist
    Chloée Ohayon-Crosby is a Costume Designer and Wardrobe Specialist in Los Angeles, California. With over eight years of experience in fashion consulting, Chloée specializes in personal, film, theater, and commercial styling as well as image consulting and costume design. Chloée has worked as an assistant designer for the distinguished fashion house Chloée and as a freelance stylist with Glamour Italia. Chloée studied Fine/Studio Arts at the Ecole Nationale Supérieure des Beaux-Arts and Fashion Design and Merchandising at the world renowned ESMOD École Supérieure des Arts in Paris, France.
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    Being confident is one of the best ways to look and feel great. If you highlight your favorite features, you'll find you feel a lot better about your style. It will also help to get to know your body and what kinds of clothing look good on it. If you're not sure what colors to wear, try black and red, which are known to be more attractive and visually stimulating.
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    I really like this boy, but I am too unattractive for him to like me. I'm very sociable and fun around most people, but I don't sit with him in school, so would it seem weird to start a conversation?
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    Not at all! Don't put yourself down. For many guys, personality is much more important than looks anyway. Just walk up and say "Hi, how's it going." Be your fun, likable self. I'm sure he won't think you're weird.
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    I have big scars on my face. Is that attractive?
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    Scars are a way of showing what you have been through. If a man doesn't find you attractive because of scars, he is not worth your time.
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    Is it normal for a girl to feel like she is unattractive?
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    Yes. Humans are judgmental of themselves in general, and girls are usually worse than guys about it. Society has very specific and high standards about what is considered attractive in women and girls who feel like they don't live up to these standards feel bad about themselves.
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    What if I'm nervous to approach a guy?
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    I used to have the same problem, but if you're nervous to approach a guy, think about how he feels about approaching you. Prepare yourself and set a time you can talk to him and plan what you are going to say. Say things like, "Hey, how's your day going?" Make eye contact with him because I've learned that guys find that attractive.
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    I have like shoulder-length dark hair. Is this unattractive?
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    First of all, there is no universal standard of beauty; different people are attracted to different qualities in a person. If you're interested in feeling more attractive, try to accentuate what makes you unique and embracing confidence. At the end of the day, attractiveness has a lot more to do with attitude than appearance.
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    If I've never been pursued by a boy. Does that mean that I'm unattractive?
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    Often, the girls that are outgoing or flirtatious get pursued more quickly by men than quiet girls. Don't base your self worth on how men treat you. Be yourself and the right person will find you beautiful.
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    Is it true that men hate homely women?
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    Not at all! Many woman believe that they have to be attractive in order to be loved, but that isn't true. A lot of men choose personality over looks. The men who do choose looks over personality, or even make fun of homely women, are really immature and not worth anyone's time.
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    How do you get him to love you?
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    You can't make someone love you. It has to happen naturally or it won't work. Take care of yourself, smile and keep laughing. Try to talk to him, not just about you. One way to make him like you is to naturally make eye contact. You'll understand once you try.
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    Do men prefer girly-girls over tomboyish girls?
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    Men are all different and have different preferences. You should be yourself and find someone who likes you as you are.
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    Why can't I get a date even though I am attractive?
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    You can be attractive, but maybe you aren't approachable. Rather than waiting for him to come to you, you can start the conversation and show off your personality. Make yourself approachable.
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    Do I need to change myself to become more attractive to men?
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    Honestly, no. Men find it a lot more attractive when a woman is confident in who she is. Also, if you change yourself for a man it can lead to other problems in your life because you are no longer being true to yourself. The only person you should really change for is you.
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    Why don't guys find me attractive, even though I'm friendly and my friends think I'm pretty?
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    All men find different things attractive, so you just have to find the man that's perfect for you. Don't change yourself or your personality -- as long as you're confident and 100% you, there will be someone out there who finds your attractive!
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    People say I'm attractive, but I've never dated anyone because I've never been asked out and no one likes me that I know about. Why is this?
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    Maybe you're not friendly and approachable enough - try smiling and/or talking to people more. Find people you have things in common with, so they can be attracted to you more than just physically. If you want, you can try asking someone out yourself.
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    How do I attract a boy?
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    Be confident in yourself and you'll have a guy in no time. Smell good, look clean and well-presented, and don't be afraid to have a good time. It will also help to befriend a lot of different boys. The more guys you know, the more chances you have to attract at least one of them.
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    How do I get my crush to like me if he ignores me, even after I've tried to strike a conversation many times?
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    Honestly, it's probably better to just move on. It sounds like he's not interested and you're wasting your time. Plenty of fish in the sea.
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    What should I do if every time I like a guy I eventually get over him and then learn that he likes me?
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    Dig deeper into your feelings. Give him a chance and if you still are totally over him then end things with him.
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    How can I get a date when I'm quiet in public, wild and fun with my family?
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    When you find someone you're attracted to, try to start a conversation. It doesn't have to be deep and meaningful, it can be silly and fun. Just be yourself. That's the most attractive quality you can show.
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    Is it true if they fight with you, they'll like you?
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    This is a ridiculous and horrible myth that still lingers about. You should never settle for anyone that is mean or always tries to fight with you.
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    What do I do if I've embarrassed myself in front of him, and he won't forget it?
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    Move on. If someone won't make you forget an embarrassing moment, then forget about them. Why do you want to invest in an insensitive person?
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    I have a few girl friends and many guy friends. Does this make me less attractive?
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    Of course not. It could even make you more attractive to some men. The fact that you hang out with many guys may mean you have a bigger chance of being asked out.
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    Should I allow a man to kiss or touch me on a first date?
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    You should only do what you feel comfortable with. Keep in mind, though, that men often respect a woman who sets boundaries and loves herself enough not to "give pieces of herself" away without them being earned.
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    How can I know if he is the man for me?
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    Just notice if he is relaxed in your conversations, smiles at you often or does similar things then he is the one. Play it cool and just see to it that you are comfortable with him. There is no sure answer but you will know.
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    What should I do if I broke up with him and I want to get back together?
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    If you are having regrets about breaking up with him, you should express your thoughts and feelings to him so that you are on the same page. He will either go for it or not. If you are certain about getting back together with him, you will have to take the chance.
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    Do men prefer slim or big women?
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    It depends on the man. Everyone has different preferences -- just focus on being yourself and looking the way you want to look. The right man will love you for who you are.
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    I'm tall. How do I avoid coming off as intimidating?
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    First, smile a lot which shows that you are way more easy-going and relaxed than you look. Next, make sure to be yourself and joke around a lot. People love a happy, funny, bubbling pot of intimidation! Last of all, show that you are a kind and honey-sweet person by doing something that you love doing that also benefits others, like donating to a charity or something.
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    Why is it that I never get approached by a guy I like, even when I try to make eye contact? Does it mean that I'm unattractive?
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    Just because a guy doesn't approach you or isn't interested in you, doesn't mean you're unattractive. If a guy thinks that you are not his type, then it's his loss. Be yourself, and don't be afraid to make the first move. Walk up and say hi, see what happens.
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    I have blunt bangs. Some people tell me to change my haircut, but many people compliment me. What should I do?
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    You should do whatever makes you happy! Don't worry so much about what other people think of your hair. You should rock whatever style you like the most.
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    What do I do if my physical attributes aren't sexually pleasing?
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    A woman does not always have to be sexually appealing, yes it could help, but you wouldn't want a relationship that revolves around sex anyway. But everyone has good qualities, work what you have.
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