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How can I break up with my girlfriend without hurting her?

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Try to be direct with them as soon as you realize that the relationship isn't working out. It will still probably hurt her a little, but waiting longer will make it more difficult.

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But what if she has friends that will try to hurt you?

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Try to ease her pain as much as possible. The key is to not make her mad during the breakup phone call.

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My girl friend is not serious about me what should I do?

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If you're thinking about preemptively calling her and breaking it off, give her lack of commitment as a key reason for breaking up.

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I need to break up with an 11 year old nicely so we can still be friends. My brother likes her more.

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Make it easier by telling her positive qualities she has that your brother has mentioned.

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What if I like someone else?

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Break it off clean before starting a new relationship.

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