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What does it mean when people are annoying?

Evan Parks, PsyD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Dr. Evan Parks is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and an Adjunct Assistant Professor at The Michigan State University College of Human Medicine. With over 25 years of experience, he specializes in helping people manage chronic pain through the Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Approach at Mary Free Bed Rehabilitation Hospital. He also has experience working with others on topics ranging from stress management to mental flexibility. Dr. Parks is also the author of Chronic Pain Rehabilitation: Active Pain Management That Helps You Get Back to the Life You Love. Dr.Parks holds a BA in Theology from Cedarville University, an MA in Counseling Psychology from Western Michigan University, and a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from The Forest Institute of Professional Psychology.

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For many people, behaving negatively to get their needs met is the only way they know how to behave. Keep in mind that most people prefer to have negative attention rather than none at all.

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How do you fix an annoying person?

Evan Parks, PsyD
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Dr. Evan Parks is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and an Adjunct Assistant Professor at The Michigan State University College of Human Medicine. With over 25 years of experience, he specializes in helping people manage chronic pain through the Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Approach at Mary Free Bed Rehabilitation Hospital. He also has experience working with others on topics ranging from stress management to mental flexibility. Dr. Parks is also the author of Chronic Pain Rehabilitation: Active Pain Management That Helps You Get Back to the Life You Love. Dr.Parks holds a BA in Theology from Cedarville University, an MA in Counseling Psychology from Western Michigan University, and a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from The Forest Institute of Professional Psychology.

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You might help them see how their behavior impacts others and suggest better alternatives.

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What if you don't want to hurt their feelings?

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You can be direct and respectful without hurting their feelings. State what annoys you without blaming them personally. Make it about you by using "I" statements.

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What if a teacher annoys me?

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Write out specifically what annoys you about the teacher first. Ask others you trust about it to see if it's reasonable. Then confront the teacher in private directly or through a letter explaining to them what is annoying to you and why. They may not be aware of it.

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