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What if my mother and mother don't want me to wear makeup?

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You could explain to them why you want to and let them know that it makes you feel better.

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Why would someone dress a twelve year old? Can't they dress themselves?

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Some twelve year olds may suffer from Down syndrome or autism. This can make the child unable to dress themselves properly. Someone may also dress a twelve year old if they are ill.

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What should I do if I want to wear comfy, red, checkered jeans, and my mom will not let me?

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Talk about what you're allowed to wear and not with your mom. Tell her why you think you should be able to wear your jeans, but be considerate of how she feels and her reasons.

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What if my mom doesn't like makeup?

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Then you'll have to wait till you're older to wear it. No biggie. Makeup will still be around when you're old enough to make the decision for yourself.

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What if your mom still treats me like a little girl and still gives me little girl clothes?

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Express gently and calmly to your mom you don't really like the clothes she gives you. If she just doesn't listen to you at all, remain calm and assess the situation before saying something else.

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Why can't I wear shorts to junior high?

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It is most likely against the school's dress code.

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My mom still buys me long sleeve shirts with hearts on them, but I want crop tops and tube tops. How do I explain that to her?

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Its probably best to just talk to your mother. There is nothing wrong with wearing crop tops and tube tops.

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My mother thinks that when I ask her if I can wear makeup, it's a kind of teenage rebellion. Is light makeup like foundation and lipstick or eyeliner too much for a 12-year-old?

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If your mother thinks that's too much makeup, for now it IS. You'll have most of the rest of your life to wear as much makeup as you want. Your mother will soften over time. In the meantime, you might try a light blush, mascara, and some pale lipstick for a classic look.

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If you like a guy, should you put more effort into your daily routine for him to notice you?

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You could if you want. You could also say to him, "Hey, I like your backpack / hairstyle / shirt, etc."

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What if every single thing you like to wear, your mom says no to?

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You can try going to the store and making a compromise with her. For example, if you want to wear shorts, but your mom says it's too revealing, you can agree to wear tights under them.

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A lot of the 'popular girls' are wearing crop tops other things like that. I want to fit in and I also think they are pretty but I'm too scared to say so to my parents?

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Don't worry about what the 'popular girls' like and wear. Wear what you like to wear and is comfortable. If you really want to fit in, try asking your mom to go shopping and ask, "Mom, do you think this looks good on me?".

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What If I never go to the mall or clothing stores this year, I try to tell them to take me there, but they never will, how do I tell them I want to go in a kind way?

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if you are growing out of your clothes, try to tell your parents that you don't have a lot of clothes that fit you. Casually show them some clothes you want online. For example say, "Hey mom/dad. Don't you think this sweater would look good on me?" or, "Hey mom, I really like this shirt."

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My mum always buys me flowery dresses, but I only like t-shirts, denim shorts and black leggings in winter. How do I get her to stop? She has a very short temper.

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Tell her kindly that black leggings, denim shorts and t-shirts are your style. Tell her you love what she gets you except you want to try something new in your style and you appreciate her for everything.

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My mom only wants me to wear plain blue jeans and T-Shirts every day because according to her “school is not a fashion show”. But I want to dress for me, not for others. What do I do?

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Yes, school is not a fashion show. School is for learning. But if you insist, then don't dress at school. Just dress at home or when you go out.

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I have found a couple of crop tops, jeans and Nikes that i like. My mum says there is no point, she always tells me that i don't need to be like them but I want to be like the others. What do I do?

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Your mom is right. You don't need to be like others. If those 'others' are good people, they won't judge you by your clothing style, they will judge you by your personality and who you are. Your mom is right. But if you really insist, then just wait till you grow up and get them yourself. No need to spend your parents' money.

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I really need new clothes, but I have a weaker immune system then most and can't leave the house during the Covid break. Any advice?

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You could buy them online and get them sent to your home. Just make sure you can return them if they do not fit.

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My mom still gives me pink clothes and I want to tell her that I’m to old for this but I don’t want to hurt her feelings and I’m trying to grow up.

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Ask if you can try a different color. Maybe say that your new favorite color is blue or another color and ask if you can get that instead.

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I don't have a mum and my dad doesn't have money for clothes. A lot of my clothes are old and ripped, what do I do?

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Where you live, you could ask around for better clothes or visit a charity store and ask for help. Or, color a creative flyer for odd jobs that you could do to help out, like babysitting, weeding, petsitting, and more. You could earn some money that way and then next time you go out to the store, you can get some cool clothes for yourself.

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I want a couple of crop tops and cute shoes. I want outfits to fit in with my friends, and new hairstyles. My mom just doesn't understand. What should I do?

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You should not just wear certain items "to fit in with your friends." If they are really your friends, they will judge you by your personality, not by your clothing style. Your mom probably has the same opinion and doesn't want you to submit to group pressure. If you really want these items for yourself, ask your mother why she doesn't want you to have them. If they're too expensive, offer to take up a mini-job, like walking dogs or babysitting, or use your own pocket money to pay for the clothes and hairstyles you want.

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My mom thinks I have too many clothes. What should I do?

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Ask her what clothes in your wardrobe are unnecessary in her opinion. Maybe you can find some items that you really don't need anymore and throw them out, gift them to someone or sell them in a garage sale. If she still thinks you have too many clothes, try to explain to her why you need them.

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