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Can I get a girlfriend online?

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Yes! If you're asking someone out you met online, try to have at least 5 back-and-forth exchanges before you ask them out on a date.

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How do you politely ask for a date?

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Try to suggest a date that's related to your common interests. For example, if you find out you both enjoy hiking, you could say something like, "I'm actually going on a hike this Sunday. Do you want to go with me?”

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What if the other person likes pick-up lines?

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If you know they'll like a goofy pickup line, go for it! They work well on close friends and people who have a good sense of humor.

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If I get a date, then what do I say?

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If someone agrees to go out with you, say something like, "Cool! So what day works for you?" If you don't have their number already, exchange digits so you can follow up with them later and make a solid plan to go out.

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What does it mean if he hugs me after asking?

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It's probably a good sign! Someone hugging you means that they're interested, especially if they've just asked you on a date.

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What do I do if I don't think we should have a second date but we should still be friends?

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Explain it to them gently. You could say something like, "I had a really fun time on our date, but I didn't really feel a spark. I'd love to still hang out with you as friends, though!"

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