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What if she likes you and the other guy and cannot decide who she wants?

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You'll need to give her time to make a decision on her own. Ultimately, it's up to her to make the choice about which relationship she values more. Don't feel obligated to wait around, though--if she just can't decide, it may be best for you to move on and find a relationship with someone who's not already attached.

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She knows I love her and she broke up with her boy friend but she is not forgetting him and she is not loving me. What should I do?

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It's natural for her to have complicated feelings about her ex-boyfriend under the circumstances. If you think it's worthwhile to keep fighting for the relationship, sit down with her and have a heart-to-heart talk about where things stand between you, without judging or making accusations. If you feel like she's still too in love with her ex to make things work, it might be time to move on.

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A girl asked me to a disco but along with her boyfriend. I think she wants her boyfriend to get jealous. She didn't ask anyone else to go. What should I do?

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Trust your instincts. If you're pretty sure that she's just trying to make her boyfriend jealous, it's probably better not to go. You could end up in a pretty toxic and uncomfortable situation if you go along with it.

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What if the relationship is strong between them?

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If she's already in a great relationship, then it's probably not a good idea to try to get together with her. Accept that she's not available and try to find someone else who's already open to a new relationship.

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What do you do if the girl you like has a boyfriend?

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If she seems happy and madly in love with her boyfriend, then your best bet may be to work to accept it and try to move on so you can be happy. But, if she shows signs that she's interested in you, such as spending lots of time alone or engaging in deep and intimate conversations, then she may be willing to leave her current boyfriend for you. Regardless, treat her with respect and don't force her to make a decision.

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How do you know if a girl likes you but is hiding it?

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Pay attention to her actions towards you. They may reveal that she likes you but isn't able to express it. For example, if she touches your hand or face when she talks to you or if you notice that she makes a lot of eye contact with you whenever you're around her, it could be a sign that she's interested in you. However, the best way to find out is to simply ask her. It may seem scary, but if want to know for sure, it's the only way!

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How do you ask a girl out if she has a boyfriend?

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If you're interested in a girl who already has a boyfriend, you need to show her that you like her and that you would make a good boyfriend. Try telling her how you feel. Then, it's up to her to make the next move and break up with her boyfriend so you can have a romantic relationship with her.

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