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Is it OK to imitate someone that you admire?

Jennifer Guttman, PsyD
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Dr. Jennifer Guttman, is a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, Clinical Psychologist, and the Founder of the Sustainable Life Satisfaction®, a motivational and lifestyle platform. With over 30 years of experience and practice in New York City and Westport, Dr. Guttman specializes in treating people struggling with acute behavioral disorders stemming from anxiety, depression, stress, attention deficit, and phobias. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Drew University and a Doctor of Psychology from Long Island University. Dr. Guttman is the author of "A Path To Life Satisfaction Workbook (2018),” a monthly blog contributor to Psychology Today and Thrive Global, and a contributor to articles in major publications, media sites, and podcasts including The Washington Post, Reader's Digest, Redbook, Teen Vogue, Health, mindbodygreen.com, Harvesting Happiness, and Unshakable Self-Confidence.

Jennifer Guttman, PsyD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

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Definitely, as long as you have the write attitude. Focus on the specific traits that you admire in your role model and try to imitate those. Then, look for other ways that you can model their behavior, whether it's at home, at work, or during your free time.

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What if the person is fictional?

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You can look at the same traits of the fictional character and then follow the same steps.

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What if my idol has been dead for 30 years?

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A person doesn't need to be alive for you to imitate the positive qualities they had that you admire. You might need to update a few things for modern sensibilities, but other than that, just research the person and find out more about them, then follow the steps in the article as best you can.

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How can I get them to talk to me?

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Simply introduce yourself and start a conversation. Then you can become closer as you get to know more about them.

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What if the person notices that you are acting like them?

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If it bothers them, tone it down a little. However, many people are flattered by imitation. Let them know you're imitating them because you admire them.

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What are the things that encourage people to imitate?

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Sometimes a person will imitate to get recognition and attention. Over-exaggerated personality traits are more likely to be imitated.

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What if the person I am imitating is super clean, and I admire them for that, but I'm messy and unorganized?

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Start off small. Make cleaning and tidying something to enjoy and not a chore. Play music and do it in stages. Give yourself a reward for getting things done.

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