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    How can I show my boyfriend that I really love him?
    John Keegan
    Dating Coach
    John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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    Make sure you're there for him and be a good listener when he needs to talk about things.
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    How do I know that my boyfriend loves me?
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    If he tells you that he loves you, believe him. But you can also tell by how he treats you, looks at you, speaks about you to others, etc. If he treats you really well, looks at you lovingly, and praises you to others, there's a good chance he loves you, even if he hasn't said it.
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    My boyfriend loved another first, but the girl cheated on him. Sometimes I become more sensitive when he talks about her. Is it okay to ask him about his past?
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    Yes, you can ask him about his past, but believe him when he says that he is over his ex.
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    I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves me, but sometimes he ignores me and I feel really hurt. I hate his habit of ignoring me. What can I do for him that makes him fall really in love with me?
    Tom De Backer
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    I would suggest approaching this from a different angle. First, I would talk about how I feel. If his behavior hurts you, you have the right to request that he stops that behavior. You say he loves you, so he will be all too eager to stop hurting you. But I wouldn't do anything for my girlfriend to make her really love me, quite the opposite. Go out with your friends, without him, have a good time without him, show him what a superb girl you are, make him miss you. When he asks to spend time together, say you've already got plans (even if you don't), but you are free in three days.
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    I am so shy and he wants a kiss. I want to kiss him but I am so shy. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Just take a deep breath and do it!
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    What do I do if a guy likes me, but he is very tall and I feel like I'm too short for him?
    Community Answer
    Your height doesn't matter. If it doesn't bother him, don't let it bother you. Plenty of couples have major height differences between them. It's no big deal.
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    How do I make my boyfriend more attracted to me?
    Community Answer
    Don't try too hard he will know if you try too hard. Just be subtle and not too strong.
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    How can I touch my boyfriend's heart?
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    Make jokes, be kind and sweet to him, give him gifts related to his interests, go on dates, and do hobbies together.
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    My boyfriend loves me a lot but he doubts me. What should I do?
    Toby Oraka
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    If he loves you that much, you should ask him why he is doubting you. And if you unconditionally love him too, you also tell yourself the truth if his doubt in you is true.
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    How can I kiss him? I am so shy.
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    It would be better to do this in a private setting. You don't want any interruptions. Then just go for it! If he backs away, it's okay. He may not be ready yet.
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    I think my partner is ignoring me and cheating on me. What should I do?
    Drew Fury
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    If you feel that your partner is cheating on you then you should be upfront about it. Ask you partner how they feel about your relationship and if they're happy. Tell them you're concerned. If they love you, they'll tell you. If they feel different, they'll tell you. Communication is key in relationships. Be honest with each other.
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    I feel like my boyfriend is not really in love with me, but I love him a lot! What should I do?
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    Ask him how he feels about you and express your concerns. If he doesn't call you enough, or you don't feel like much of a priority to him, let him know. There's not much you can do about it if he doesn't love you, but you should at least be able to find out for sure.
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    What if the guy is planning to ask me to be his special girl later on? Because I'm planning to give him a letter saying "Will you be my boyfriend?".
    Community Answer
    Just give him the letter. No sense in waiting to confirm you feel the same way as he does.
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    How can I convince my boyfriend to stay with me for a long time?
    Community Answer
    Impressing him might work. Listen to him when he talks, do fun things together and be kind.
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    How do you make him think you're gorgeous?
    Community Answer
    If he's your boyfriend, he already thinks you're gorgeous. Being beautiful is really about loving yourself and being kind and confident.
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    How do I know he loves me?
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    Generally, if he puts you first before all, contacts you, hugs you a lot, tells you he loves everyday, and puts effort to love and communicate with you.
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    There is a girl who chats with my boyfriend when I am with him. What should I do about her?
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    You don't have to do anything about her. Just be nice; if you are nasty to her, you will come off looking jealous and petty.
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    I always wish to talk with him, but he seems to be busy with his own life and I feel like he ignores me. What should I do?
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    Catch him at a time when you know he's not busy, and tell him exactly how you feel. If he refuses to listen and/or continues ignoring you after you've had this talk, it may be time to end the relationship.
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    What should I do if he wants to eat Taco Bell and I am extremely gassy?
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    Order something that may cause less gassy symptoms and eat slowly. A tablespoon of apple cider vinegar may help as well. Or there is the option of being open with your partner and just letting one rip.
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    How do I make more love?
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    Go on more dates, and do more stuff together (video games, sports, etc.). Also bear in mind that 'love' isn't something that can be quantified. Just enjoy each others' company and things should go well.
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    I've just recently got a boyfriend, and I don't know if I should kiss him. Should I?
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    If you want to kiss him and you feel comfortable doing so, then sure. You might want to start out small. Hug him first, and then hold his hand, and work your way up to the kiss.
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    How can I surprise my boyfriend?
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    Make a CD of your favorite songs, or you can always spice things up in the bedroom.
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    My boyfriend is not replying to my messages. We are in a long distance relationship, and I don't know what's wrong! What do I do?
    Community Answer
    If it hasn't been more than a day, be patient. Maybe he's just busy or he left his phone somewhere. Don't jump to any crazy conclusions. If it's been more than a day, try contacting any family members or mutual friends you can get in touch with and just ask if everything is okay.
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    How can I tell if my boyfriend likes me?
    Community Answer
    There are some great tips in wikiHow to Know if a Guy Likes You .
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    What if he still doesn't pay attention to me?
    Community Answer
    Make him see that he is missing out, show him that you are worth paying attention to. If he still doesn't pay attention to you, he is probably not worth it.
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    What is something special I can get my boyfriend for Christmas?
    Community Answer
    Get a jar, some nice paper, some nice pens, and scissors. Use these things to make a jar of reasons why you love your boyfriend, one reason on each little slip of paper you cut. My boyfriend did this for me for Christmas this year, and I'm going to do the same thing for him for his birthday. I love my jar of reasons and read each one of them every single day. If your boyfriend's anything like me, he'll keep his jar of reasons forever.
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    Is it normal to snap at my boyfriend when he doesn't do something right or if he tries bringing up girls from the past to get things off his chest?
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    While snapping at someone can be accidental and many people will do it, that is quite mean and could be abusive if you do it too often. Try to be kind and listen to him as everyone makes mistakes, and maybe if you let him get it off his chest he won't try bringing it up again. However, if it's bothering you or he tries to talk about girls from the past too often you can always tell him how you feel as communication is key, but try not to get angry as people are more likely to listen and try to understand you if you say it kindly. If your boyfriend does something terrible like cheating, it would be okay to express your anger. However, if it's just for small things, there is no need to be harsh.
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    I know my boyfriend loves me, but he has been acting weird lately, and I feel like he thinks I'm clingy and controlling. What should I do?
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    If you feel like you ARE being clingy and controlling, you should work on this. Check out the article on How to Be Less Clingy . You might also want to talk to him and ask him if anything is bothering him. You could start by saying something like, "It seems like you've been distant lately, are you upset with me?"
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    Is it okay to introduce my male friend to my boyfriend?
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    Sure. Lots of people have friends of the opposite gender, and your boyfriend should understand that.
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    My boyfriend is already in a relation with another girl, even though he says he loves me so much. What should I do?
    Tom De Backer
    Top Answerer
    You can do what you like. If you want to continue being his girlfriend, you're going to have to find a way to live with his infidelity. If you can do that, fine, though it's not nice to the other girl that he's cheating on her. If she knows about you and is OK with the whole thing, then fine, though it is rare that people can find this in their hearts. If it was me, I would leave him instantly, and never look back. You want someone who will move mountains just to be with you, who is totally and uncontrollably in love with you, and has no doubt in his heart that he wants you and only you.
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