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How do you know if a girl is not interested in you through text?

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John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.

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It should be pretty easy to pick up on it. If she isn't really engaging with you and she keeps responding with one- or two-word answers, she isn't into it. Also, if you're always texting her first, that's a pretty big sign, too.

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What are some body language cues that she likes me?

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John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.

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A lot of eye contact and smiling is usually a good sign. If she goes out of her way to touch you, that's usually a surefire sign she likes you. The old "hair twirl" move is also a pretty universal sign she thinks you're attractive.

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Should I cut contact with someone who rejects me?

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That's really up to you. Is the relationship worth keeping, even if it's not romantic? Only you can make that call.

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How do I move on from a crush who isn't interested in me?

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There are good tips in Get Over a Crush .

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How do I know if someone isn't interested in me if she tells her friends that I am her boyfriend and then rejected my proposal and doesn't respond to my texts?

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In my opinion, she is using you for social status. There are a few ways to deal with this: You can tell people that you aren't together, you can talk to her about it, see what's going on, and then make a decision (probably the most mature move). Or you can just accept that she is being immature and find a different girlfriend.

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How can I tell if a girl is playing hard to get?

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If you take two steps back, does she take one step forward? If she is truly into you, usually temporarily ignoring her will put a stop to the playing-hard-to-get technique.

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How can I tell someone I am not in love any more without breaking their heart?

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You can't. In some way or another, if they still have feelings for you then they won't get let down easy.

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