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How can I keep the conversation going when I am on a date?

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Make it a priority to ask questions and be curious about your date. The more you're able to listen to them, the better you'll be able to forge a connection and feel comfortable around them. If you're shy, try coming up with some conversation topics ahead of time for when there's a lull in the conversation.

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What if you like him and he likes you, but he won't show it?

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You may need to make the first move. Try flirting with him or just starting a conversation!

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What do I do when I guy I used to like calls me when he didn't even have my number?

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Answer the phone, and ask him why he's calling. Then, decide whether you want to keep talking to him or not. If you still like him, continue talking. If you want him to stop calling, tell him you're not interested and hang up. If he keeps calling, you may need to block his number.

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What if he is in a lower grade than I am?

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That's fine as long as you're both happy with it, and there's not too much of an age difference.

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I have a boy in my school who keeps looking at me throughout the day, and whenever I check him out, he just looks down. He is my Facebook friend, too. What should I do?

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The best tactic here is to address the problem head on. Pull him aside, and ask him why he keeps staring at you. You could say, "I notice you've been looking at me throughout the day. Is there a reason you keep staring at me?"

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I have been texting a boy. He asked where I was and was being super sarcastic. What does this mean?

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It often depends on the person. The best tactic is to ask him about it.

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