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What should you look for when trying to read someone's body language?

Sarah Schewitz, PsyD
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Sarah Schewitz, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist by the California Board of Psychology with over 10 years of experience. She received her Psy.D. from the Florida Institute of Technology in 2011. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology practice helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships.

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Look for changes! For example, their skin tone might change; they might get red or flushed; they might start moving, touching, or scratching a part of their body; or they might clench their jaw and you'll see their jaw muscle moving or their fist being squeezed.

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Is there a good book or site I can refer to? I'd like to a deeper understanding of how to read people.

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I recommend you read The Social Animal by Elliot Arson and The Principles of Psychology by William James.

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How do I know if someone likes me?

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There are many possible signs. If someone goes out of his way to come talk to you, for example, this is a very good sign. Also, if he tells his friends about you (in all positive ways, of course), that could indicate something. This article may be of more help: how to figure out if someone likes you .

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How do I know if someone is mad at me?

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They won't talk to you, and if they do, they'll be short with you, or they might be sarcastic or rude. They will probably also scowl at you or avoid looking at you altogether.

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What are some good books about body language?

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The Social Animal by Elliot Arson and The Principles of Psychology by William James are good books.

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How do I know if someone hates me based on their body language?

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If the person is standing but leaning away from you with their arms crossed and a glaring expression on their face, they likely hate you.

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