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What should I do if I don't get my way in a situation or disagree with the way something is being done?

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It can be quite frequent that we do not get exactly what we want, so your focus should be on what would be acceptable to you in order to find a good compromise. It’s ok to disagree and you can voice your disagreement, but keep in mind that others may not heed your advice.

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How do I resolve a conflict with someone who is not open to resolving it?

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Talk to them about the pros of solving the issue versus the cons of not solving the issue. If it is work related, you both would benefit from an amiable resolution; it will make life easier for you and everyone around you. If the conflict cannot be resolved quickly, it may need to be addressed by your management. If the conflict is between family members or friends, discuss what kind of relationship you want and what each of you must do to have that.

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What are some ways of resolving family conflicts?

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Family therapy may be necessary in constant, hostile situations. Professionals have objectivity and training that can help dysfunctional families.

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What should I do if I can't get away?

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Try your best to physically remove yourself from a conflict, which is almost always possible. This will give you time to think, breathe and calm down.

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If one of my friends said bad things about me to another friend, and that person told me about it, how do I resolve this conflict?

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First of all, this "friend" who said bad things doesn't sound like a friend. Don't keep this friendship! And for the other friend, it depends on what they said. Was she like, "Sally said you are ugly, hahaha," or was she like, "I thought you should know Sally told me she thought you were ugly." If it was the first one, you need new friends all together, don't put yourself in these situations. If it was the second one, stick with her. Maybe try to talk to the person who said bad stuff and tell them how you feel, or wait and see if it becomes bullying. Then tell an adult.

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