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What do you do when your ex keeps calling you?

Lisa Shield
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Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan.

Lisa Shield

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Set clear boundaries. Say something like "We don't have that kind of relationship anymore. I'm no longer your confidant or support system."

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Is it healthy to keep in touch with an ex?

Lisa Shield
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Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan.

Lisa Shield

Dating Coach

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It's okay to have friendly interactions, such as wishing each other a happy birthday, but be sure to draw the line and establish boundaries.

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How do I set boundaries with my ex?

Lisa Shield
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Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan.

Lisa Shield

Dating Coach

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Come right out and say where you need your boundaries so they know where the relationship stands.

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Is it weird to send your ex a present?

Lisa Shield
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Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master's degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan.

Lisa Shield

Dating Coach

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It's not weird to send your ex a gift, but make sure you don't send them the wrong message. Only send a gift if you know for sure they won't think you want to get back together.

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