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How do I tell if my friend is into me?

Christina Jay, NLP
Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach
Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.

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Flirt with them and see if they flirt back. See if they want to impress you. Also, pay attention to if they get jealous of your dates and are always pointing out something wrong with them.

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There is a girl I have bee friends with for many years and she pretends to be my girlfriend in front of her friends. I have feelings for her. What should I do?

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Seems like she might have mutual feelings or you as well. Girls are more subtle about being direct. Follow this article and you should be fine.

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I have confessed to a guy that I like him and he said he appreciates my honesty. We are good friends. What should I do next?

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Be a bit more proactive at this point. Suggest activities to do alone as a couple and see if he's interested. This will reveal if he's really interested in moving further.

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What if you don't think they like you back or there is a "Very likely chance" of them not liking you in the same way you do?

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You should still put yourself out there if you have very strong feelings. However, you should be prepared to face the reality if they say that they do not like you.

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He loves another girl. What should I do?

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This is a tough situation, but we cannot help who we love. It's best to not jeopardize your friend's relationship with someone else. Work on finding someone else who will return your affection.

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