Hi! My name is Lily. I am not extremely active on WikiHow anymore unfortunately. But I do still pop on every so often :) I am autistic so please be patient with me :)

What I know about: Stationary, Goodreads, writing, Amazon Kindle Paperwhite, Amazon Kindle Fire, cacti, mental illness, ADHD, clarinet, and ukulele.
What I am learning about: Friendships, tattoos, crafts, mindfulness, Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), and crocheting.

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At 15:18, Mar 07, 2021

VY said:

Awwww!!!!

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Oh my goodness. Thank you so much, Lily. I am beaming right now. :D Thank you for the thoughtfulness in your message. I will try to stay true to evvvvverything you wrote in the barnstar 💫

You have been a strong, positive influence ever since you joined. I absolutely love reading your forum discussion topics and how others express their views on them. Thanks for everything. :)

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At 13:18, Apr 08, 2021

Moonlight said:

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Kind wikiHow Contributor

Dear Lily, on your 2nd wikiBirthday, I'm awarding you this barnstar. You have been an amazing friend to everyone here and your edits are amazing. I'm really happy to have a friend like you, who shines like the stars ✨. Happy second wikiBirthday, and here's to more years. ~Moonlight

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Thanks for a deliciously crafted article!

Hi, I just wanted to say great job on your article Find Your Writing Style. It is very detailed and helpful, and there are many fan mail on your article. You definitely deserved the rising star a month ago. Congrats on the amazing article!!

From Aditi,

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High Quality wikiHow Contributor

Lily, you deserve this barnstar for the kindness you show to editors and your great attitude. Your messages are always upbeat and helpful, and your edits reflect this by always being on-topic and kind. Every time you log on, you're in a good wikiMood and ready to spread wikiLove. You really deserve this recognition for those great talk page messages and those awesome edits! I hope you stick around for a long time.

From Puppies4fun-

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The Patroller's Barnstar

ArtsyKoala, I think you deserve this award. I'm giving you this barnstar for being the person who clears out patrol- almost all the time. Thanks for reverting all those messages and other vandalism- we really appreciate you seeing what's going on and rolling back the bad edits. Thank you so much for your contributions here. I don't give much barnstars, but I really think you deserve this one. I wish you a happy day, and happy patrolling! ~Puppies4fun

From Emalee-

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Kind wikiHow Contributor

Hi Lily. You are so kind and help people when they need it. Your always a good friend. Wikihow would never be the same without you. These are the reasons why I’m giving you this barnstar. Your friend, Emalee.💖😁🙂

From Elise-

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Welcomer

I'm surprised nobody has given this to you yet. You really deserve this barnstar. Your welcome messages are always so sweet and encouraging. You really encourage the new users to keep contributing in good faith. In addition to that, you're also really good with patrolling and other wikiHow tools. The amount of effort and dedication you put into wikiHow is amazing. Keep being awesome, Lily! :)

At 14:29, Mar 03, 2021

Wisher said:

Ok! Thank you so much I can always count on you to help me!

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^ this message just made me feel so good!

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