I have recently moved to a new area and I made friends with a girl in my building that was great because I don’t know anybody and was pretty much in my own. Fast forward a few months and she’s like my best friend and we see each other pretty much every day. Recently she met a guy friend off an online app and I met his the same day through her. Me and him really hit it off and the next day he invited me out with his girlfriend to a local pub so I can get to know more people. I tell my friend about it and ask her if she wants to come but she declined. 10 minutes before we left to go out she changes her mind and comes with and it’s all good. She’s being a bit off with me the whole evening and talking to the guys girlfriend and ignoring the two of us so we chat amongst ourselves. Later in the evening we go home and have a drink at their flat but the atmosphere is so tense so we left my friend and his girlfriend to chat in one room while we go into the other. Next morning I message her to see if she’s had a good night and she’s saying all this weird stuff about our new friends relationship saying the gf said this and that so I tell the guy because it was some pretty serious stuff. Fast forward to that evening and I’m invited back round there in my own and they’re thanking me for showing them what’s been said and 99% of it was lies. The girlfriend then goes on to say that apparently my friend was saying really nasty things behind my back like ‘you want to watch her with him cos they’re being really flirty, she’s that kind of girl. Shell probably try f* him in your bathroom’ and ‘oh I don’t even know why I’m friends with her, I hate her she’s so annoying’. These are only a few othbthe nicer things she’s said. Obviously I’m very hurt by this but I don’t know if/how I should confront her due to how close we are to each other all the time in the block of flats. It seems to me like it’s jealousy because she doesn’t like me having other friends or something
does anyone in ar. know if you can get a copy of your birth certificate mailed to your home?
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Hmmm this is a case of jealousy and mystery, she is definitely hiding some secrets or something is going on. You need to confront her but don’t be too harsh or rude, ask her questions and try to get to the bottom of this and make sure the boyfriend knows too. You could also spy on her but that might cause complications… If she refuses to answer questions or tells you some random story, ask her to tell the truth, it might be better to have the boyfriend to help you with this but there is a risk to all of this so be careful! Take it nice and steady, stay calm and be polite :)
