If i knew of this page i think that it would of possibly saved my relationship with my now ex. Now that we have split and it was her intial action, i can see a pattern imerging from her past - where at a certain point in her relationships she goes back to or can get her first love out of her head. I love this girl to bits and im still going to hangon for her. Shes been through alot and im not going into details about it but for her age 20-25 shes experienced a hell of alot more than someone who was 35-45. I would never want what she went through for anyone else to experience. We saw each other last night and i just feel extremely sorry and sad i guess for her now, dont get me wrong i still love her and would take her back in a heartbeat. But i see this circle happening and ive told her about it but she seems focused on it. She even mentioned if they break-up then she will seek counselling. I hope she does regardless - over long periods of time (years) this can be a real helper. Im seeming to be taking this breakup ok, this is the second time she has broken up with me as she was having thoughts about him on new years eve. Then woke on new years day to the wonderfull words of “Joe… i think i want to be single…” Its weird now i feel like a friend to her someone who she can really talk to. Its very strange, i feel like im in The Notebook with Ryan Gosling. Im going to go off and do my own thing and i hope we reconcile in the future.
I think she likes drama in her life, or can’t get enough of it, and you are the doctor who try to help her … there is no way to stop her from doing it over and over again, unless she decided it for her self.
