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Expert tips for sexting and talking dirty to a Sagittarius guy
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Every passionate romance with a Sagittarius man should include some dirty talk. While it can take time to get the hang of it, talking dirty is a great way to have fun and connect with your Sag guy. Open-minded, confident, and expressive, a Sagittarius will love hearing you talk dirty in the bedroom—and return the favor with enthusiasm. Read on for 11 fun and flirty ways you can introduce dirty talk to your love life in person and over text, with expert tips from sex educators and astrologers.
How to Talk Dirty to a Sagittarius Man
- Ask him what he likes.
- Tell him what you enjoy.
- Be spontaneous.
- Text him as foreplay.
- Keep it playful.
- Encourage his dominant side.
- Initiate intimacy outside the bedroom.
- Try new things in your sex life.
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I (m33) have been with my gf (f34) for 2 years now. We both want to spice things up in the bedroom a little more with some dirty talk, but neither of us has much experience with it and it feels pretty unnatural so far. Is it possible to get better at it? Is it supposed to get fun and feel less awkward/strange at some point? Any tips welcome.
Some great responses and I'll echo some of them! Dirty talk is like learning how to ride a bike as an adult, you might feel awkward (and a little silly) as you wobble and keep falling off in front of other people. But over time, you start to feel more natural and comfortable with it.
Trying new things can be a great way to add spice to a sexual relationship, just be mindful though, that some of the things you can try (like dirty talk) won't work for everyone. Or one partner may enjoy it, whilst the other won't.
Also there are different types of dirty talk, and some of it can be quite disrespectful (like what you may see in porn). So you may find it more helpful to start by talking about what you would like to do to them, or what you'd like them to do to you, and to vocalise the pleasure you feel when they touch you, and to give them more vocal/verbal feedback!
Trying new things can be a great way to add spice to a sexual relationship, just be mindful though, that some of the things you can try (like dirty talk) won't work for everyone. Or one partner may enjoy it, whilst the other won't.
Also there are different types of dirty talk, and some of it can be quite disrespectful (like what you may see in porn). So you may find it more helpful to start by talking about what you would like to do to them, or what you'd like them to do to you, and to vocalise the pleasure you feel when they touch you, and to give them more vocal/verbal feedback!
I recommend starting dirty talk through texting. This gives you the opportunity to more carefully craft your messages! Start texting a little during the workday if you work in different places. This can build up anticipation for when you do see them in person. You can always text them something very simple, like, "I can't wait to play with you later, devil emoji." It's benign but also gets your partner a little bit excited.
Also, before you launch into dirty talk, make sure you ask your partner: "How do you feel about dirty talk? Are you down to do that today?" Ask them this outside of the bedroom so there is no power dynamic at play. If they're not into it that day, it doesn't mean they don't love you or they're rejecting you. It just means that that's not something they want to do in that moment.
A few other phrases you can try are "you're so dirty," "you're a dirty girl/boy," "you've been a good girl/boy" (some people have a praise kink). Always check in with your partner to see what they like and don't like, as consent is sexy.
Also, before you launch into dirty talk, make sure you ask your partner: "How do you feel about dirty talk? Are you down to do that today?" Ask them this outside of the bedroom so there is no power dynamic at play. If they're not into it that day, it doesn't mean they don't love you or they're rejecting you. It just means that that's not something they want to do in that moment.
A few other phrases you can try are "you're so dirty," "you're a dirty girl/boy," "you've been a good girl/boy" (some people have a praise kink). Always check in with your partner to see what they like and don't like, as consent is sexy.
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References
- ↑ https://popularastrology.com/sagittarius-man-in-bed
- ↑ Julia Topaz. Astrologer. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://vekkesind.com/how-to-talk-dirty-to-a-sagittarius-man/
- ↑ Danielle Bezalel. Sex Educator. Expert Interview
- ↑ https://www.costarastrology.com/zodiac-signs/sagittarius-sign
- ↑ https://popularastrology.com/sagittarius-man-in-bed
- ↑ Angel Eyedealism. Professional Astrologer. Expert Interview
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