Have I Met My Twin Flame?

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Legend says that when our souls are made, they’re too powerful to fit inside just one body. So instead, they’re split between two people who are destined to find each other.

Your twin flame inspires you to grow. They’ll pull you in like a magnetic force, and you might never be the same. Have you met yours? Click “Start Quiz” to find out.

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1. “When I met my partner, I felt like we’d known each other forever.”
  1. This is exactly how I feel.
  2. We formed a deep bond super quickly, but maybe not immediately.
  3. They made me smile right away, but I didn’t feel like we already knew each other.
  4. I didn’t feel this way at all.
2. How would you describe your bond?
  1. Cosmic, unbreakable, magical.
  2. Strong, comforting, loving.
  3. Fun, refreshing, playful.
  4. Like any relationship, it has ups and downs. Our bond is fine.
3. Which do you relate to the most:
  1. Our trust is complete, our bond is unbreakable, and we love each other without strings attached.
  2. We try to treat each other well and apologize when we mess up.
  3. We have tons of fun together. That’s the best part of our relationship.
  4. I have doubts all the time, but I think that’s normal.
4. How in tune with each other are you?
  1. I can read their mood in a second, with just a look or a word.
  2. With time, I’ve gotten to know them super well—their likes, dislikes, etc.
  3. We have a lot of inside jokes, and we know how to make each other laugh.
  4. At the end of the day, everyone is a mystery, my partner included.
5. Describe how you felt when you met your partner.
  1. Like a new life began.
  2. Like I met someone who I could really care about with time.
  3. Like I was in for a ton of fun.
  4. I can’t really remember actually.
6. Is this the most connected you’ve ever felt to someone outside of your family?
  1. Yes, definitely.
  2. Maybe. I can’t say for sure.
  3. Probably not.
  4. Are you kidding? No, of course not.
7. How do they react to your weaknesses?
  1. Their strengths complement my weaknesses. If I’m afraid, my partner’s brave; if I’m stressed, my partner’s calm.
  2. They generously take them in stride.
  3. I’m not sure they’ve seen my major weaknesses. We keep things light!
  4. I wish they were more patient with me.
8. Do you two fight fair?
  1. Even when we fight, I know everything will be fine because we truly get each other.
  2. We both do our best to communicate respectfully, but no one’s perfect.
  3. I think we’re still avoiding fights, even if that means avoiding how we really feel, too.
  4. No, not always.
9. When you two met, did it kind of feel like you were meeting yourself?
  1. Yes, that’s exactly how I’d describe it.
  2. We definitely had a deep connection, but I guess I don’t know what that would feel like—so no.
  3. No, but there was chemistry.
  4. No, they didn’t really grab my attention when we met.
10. Do they make you want to be a better person?
  1. Yes, absolutely. I feel like I’m closer to who I was always meant to be.
  2. I try to be a good partner, so in that way, yes.
  3. No, but who cares? They make me feel good.
  4. No, if anything, I feel my worst side coming out.
11. Can you be yourself around them?
  1. Without a doubt. I’m fully honest and authentic because I know they’ll understand.
  2. Yes, we both try to be. Healthy relationships are all about being your true self.
  3. I guess not…but who is?
  4. No. I’m worried they’d judge me.
12. Why’d you take this quiz?
  1. Something deep inside of me said I’d met my twin flame, and I wanted to check.
  2. Because I care so much for my partner. And who knows? Maybe they are.
  3. It just seemed like fun.
  4. I don’t know. Or, I might actually be looking for a reason to break up with my partner…

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Twin Flames, Reconciliation, Soulmates & More

Twin Flames: Though twin flames will typically inspire an intense, immediate feeling of recognition and connection, twin flames won’t be an exact replica of you. In a sense, actually, they’re what’s missing from your own soul. So though you’ll feel deeply understood and healed, meeting your twin flame will probably feel challenging, too. Wondering if you've met yours? Here are surefire signs that you and your twin flame have reunited:

  • You were immediately drawn to each other. With twin flames, the connection is hard to miss. It won’t hit you down the line; you’ll feel their magnetic pull right away.
  • You complement each other. Though your twin flame will feel eerily similar to you, they’ll also seem to excel in areas where you struggle (ex: you’re disorganized, but they’re meticulous and put together).
  • You can’t stay away. It’ll seem like no matter what happens, you two end up back in each other’s orbit. Even after years spent apart, two twin flames are likely to flock together again.
  • You’re thinking about your insecurities—but you feel empowered, too. Relationships with twin flames are often challenging. They force us to face our fears in unique ways. But as a rule, twin flames serve our personal growth above all else.
  • It isn’t always a walk in the park. Because twin flames force us to face some of our deepest fears, they sometimes bring a little drama, too. You two might not always get along, but trust and communication will keep you two on track.
  • Your bond feels other-worldly. Divine, destined, magical, cosmic…Whatever the word is, you know you feel it. If there’s something in your gut that’s urging you to keep them around, then you’ve probably met your twin flame.
  • You two truly want each other to grow. You’ll inspire, challenge, and transform one another. Twin flames are meant to bring us closer to our truest self and our full potential. If you feel that process is in motion, you’ve probably met your twin flame.

Twin Flames vs. Soulmates: Generally speaking, twin flames are about growth, whereas soulmates are about partnership. Soulmates are who we’re destined to end up with—whether it be a romantic or platonic connection. One way or another, our soulmate is going to end up in our lives for good. Unlike twin flames, you might not feel a soulmate connection right away. But eventually, your bond will intensify, making your other relationships feel small and insignificant. Some believe that in order to capture your soulmate’s heart, first you have to meet your twin flame and learn from them.

Important Disclaimer: Twin flames and soulmates are super fun ideas, and if you feel like you’ve met yours, that’s amazing. But if you haven’t, it’s important to know that there’s nothing missing from you. You’re whole already, with or without a twin flame (or soulmate). If you spend your life waiting for a cosmic arrival, you could miss all of the good stuff happening right in front of you. And the truth is, we each have the power to make any relationship healthy, fulfilling, special, and totally life changing!

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