I'm not sure about my sexuality (Ace or Bi)
I know I'm Asexual, but I'm not sure if I'm Bi or not. I feel no sexual desire. I have felt attraction towards only 2 guys. By attraction I mean I liked their personalities and looks and I felt nervous around them and I wanted to hug or kiss them, but I didn't want to do anything sexual at all. I have never been attracted to girls like this in real life, nor other men except these two. But I had online crushes and celebrity crushes on both girls and boys and I sometimes fantasized about kissing and being physically close to both girls and guys. I look at hot woman more then I look at men, but I always thought that it's normal cause girls are pretty. So I'm not sure if I'm Bi and Asexual or just Ace and hetero.
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You’re definitely asexual. If you only feel romantic pull toward guys, you’re likely heteroromantic ace. If you feel it toward both guys and girls, you’re biromantic ace
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Yeah, that's what I'm not sure about. I don't know what I should feel^^` I mean I feel attracted to girls too in some way but I never had romantic feelings towards them, but I have been in love only 1 time and it's my current boyfriend. So not like I had much experience with guys either. But when I see a thirst trap video on TikTok with a hot girl or guy I feel the same kind of attraction towards both so idk. What do you think?
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Sounds like what you’re describing is aesthetic or sensual attraction (finding people hot, enjoying the idea of kissing/cuddling) but not necessarily romantic attraction (wanting a relationship). Since you’ve only felt romantic love toward a guy, you might be heteroromantic asexual. But because you experience attraction to both men and women in a non-sexual way, you could also identify as biromantic ace if that feels right.
It really comes down to which label feels more comfortable for you there’s no test, and it’s okay to leave it open or use more than one.
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It really comes down to which label feels more comfortable for you there’s no test, and it’s okay to leave it open or use more than one.
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