How to Attract a Gemini Man As a Libra Woman (Compatibility for Gemini & Libra)

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How do you attract one of the most outgoing and charismatic signs of the zodiac? By being your wonderful balanced self, of course! As a fellow air sign, you've got a lot in common with your Gemini guy. Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about attracting his attention.

1

Show him that you're flirty.

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    As a Libra, you might have a hard time letting loose, but try to relax and let him see that you're playful. If he cracks a joke, have a witty response that also signals your interest. [1] Tease him a little and single him out from the crowd.
    • For instance, you might pull him aside and say something like, "You're too clever for this crowd. Feel like checking out somewhere with me?"
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Be social and outgoing.

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    Staying home is not a Gemini's idea of a good time! Your guy thrives in a group setting and he's drawn to someone who also enjoys going out. [2] As a Libra, you enjoy being part of a group, so make a point of asking him along to activities, or hang out together with friends. [3]
    • Since his sign is the twins you might say that as a Gemini, he makes the perfect double date.
3

Ask him thought-provoking questions.

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    As a fellow air sign, you're also known for your intellect and communication skills. [4] Take every chance to talk with him one-on-one and show him that you can hold your own in an intelligent convo. You might ask him something like:
    • "What do you think about privacy in an increasingly digital world?"
    • "What are your thoughts on what's happening in Ukraine?"
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Wear something bright and playful.

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    Libra's are known for their attention to beauty, so this shouldn't be hard for you! Instead of sticking to neutral colors or conservative styles, switch up your wardrobe frequently. Don't be afraid to try out unique outfit combinations or bold colors—he'll love that you're full of surprises.
    • You might hit the vintage clothing store for inspiration or unique pieces to inspire your outfits.
    • For instance, wear bold-colored slacks with a button-down shirt. You could wear a simple white top or add a fun pattern.
    • Try a loose blouse in a neutral color, paired with a dark skirt, and a bright blue or pink kimono to catch his eye.
5

Compliment him on his personality

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    He's fun, outgoing, witty, and he knows it. What he wants is for you to recognize how great he is and, as a Libra, you do. [5] Shower him with heartfelt compliments and he'll be yours in no time.
    • You might say, "I don't know if you realize this, but everyone was hanging on every word of your story. You're such a natural storyteller," or, "I still can't get over that joke you told. You're too clever for your own good!"
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6

Be unpredictable.

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    As a Libra, you hate monotony, so you also benefit from trying new things and breaking out a pattern. Be the first to suggest a date idea or surprise your guy—bring him his favorite candy or get him tickets for a cool concert. You could plan a memorable date like getting drinks at a speakeasy or splurging on a limo ride to an amazing club. [6]
7

Show him that you’re listening.

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    Not sure where to begin? Ask him questions about himself. He'll love that you're interested and it's a great way for you to get to know him. [8] As a Libra, you're a fantastic listener and he'll pick up on that.
    • You might ask, "Who would play you in a movie about your life?" or "What's your greatest strength?"
    • You can also ask about things he's mentioned in the past to show that you were listening. For example, "Is your friend feeling better? I remember you said he was recovering from surgery."
    • If it's easy to get him talking and opening up, it's a good sign that he likes you.
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Go on active or exciting dates.

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    He's not really the type to sit around and you don't like being bored either. Get up and make ambitious plans together. You two might hike, go kayaking, or take a dance class together for instance. You could sign up for a local 5k or challenge each other to hit the ski slopes.
    • If he suggests an activity you've never tried before, give it a try! He'll really appreciate that you're willing to attempt something new. Plus, the fact that he's asking you out is a really good sign that he likes you.
    • For example, maybe you've never played disc golf, but you two find that it's something you enjoy doing together.
9

Make yourself a little unavailable.

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    While this might be a little hard for you to do as a Libra, it will get him hooked! Instead of always being available, you might tell him that you've got plans. Make yourself a little unavailable, so he has to work a little for your attention. [9]
    • For example, if he wants to know if you'll be going with him to see a movie with mutual friends, tell him you're already going out to a concert that night. Feel free to fill him in on what's occupying your time.
    • It's a good sign if he wants to spend time with you, so you'll drive him even crazier if he can't be around you as much as he wants.
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10

Give him plenty of space.

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    You probably need some space, too, since you’re also an air sign. This gives both of you room to unwind and self-reflect so you're fully charged when you see each other again. [10]
    • Take his lead when it comes to texting each other. You might respond if he texts you, but it's totally fine to take a break from messaging, too.
11

Avoid getting jealous.

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    Libras enjoy the peacefulness that comes from a relationship, but don't let your guy rock the boat if he is charming around others. If he's flirting with other people, it's probably harmless; he can't help being outgoing and friendly. [11]
    • Geminis don't react well to jealous behavior because it makes them feel smothered.
    • A Gemini is very affectionate toward the person they're crushing. If he hugs or touches you and he's not really doing that with other people, you can be sure he's into you.
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