Am I lesbian?

Figuring out your sexuality can be a long process, and it’s totally normal to feel a little confused. On the one hand, if you’ve noticed that you only have crushes on girls and not guys, this could definitely be a sign that you’re a lesbian . On the other hand, there’s also a chance that your sexuality is still changing and evolving, and you may end up identifying more with bisexuality , pansexuality , or even heterosexuality down the road. The most important thing is to be kind and patient toward yourself as you explore your attractions and figure out the label that fits you best.

If you’re looking for some clarity, try checking in with yourself. If you’re reading a romance novel about two women, do you feel drawn to it? When you fantasize, who are you imagining? These things can sometimes help. The most important thing is to stay curious. Don’t overthink it, and give yourself time to see what feels right.