How can you tell if a girl likes you?

WikiBandicootTrader459
02/05/25 8:44am
How do you know if someone likes you? There’s this girl at school I like, and I think she likes me, but I can’t really tell. I don’t want to ask her to be my girlfriend if she’s just going to say no. Do I ask her if she likes me over text? Or do I just look for big signs?
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John Keegan
Dating Coach
02/06/25 2:12pm
One of the telltale signs that a girl likes you is that she’s paying a lot of attention to you. Sometimes that attention isn't necessarily what seems to be positive. A lot of girls like to tease, joke around, or make fun of guys they like when they flirt. Any kind of attention is a good thing.

Another big sign is if she asks you to hang out with her and her friends. Those are all good signs that someone obviously likes you as a person and it could turn into something more. Also, if she likes you, she’ll be more likely to compliment your clothes or hair style. She may even seek you out for advice or ask for help with her homework just as an excuse to talk to you.
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WikiErmineSeeker308
02/08/25 12:57am
I realized that a girl liked me when she took an interest in the things I was interested in. It's normal for someone to ask you what your hobbies are and what you like reading/watching and stuff, but she went a step further and actually did those things too. Like when I told her I was reading a certain book, she went and read it so she could talk to me about it. When she found out I was in a club she also joined that club.
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WikiGladeCatcher583
02/06/25 10:19pm
Try to pay attention to how she acts around you. Look for things like if she has trouble making or maintaining eye contact with you. If she doesn't move away or if she gets flustered when you get close to her. If she smiles a lot or gets happy when you're around her. If she leans toward you when you talk. If she stands next to you or looks a lot at you when you're in a group. Things like that.
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Anonymous WikiValley
Anonymous WikiValley
02/17/25 9:12am
I think just go for it and ask her.
I would say start a text conversation and then slowly lead into it. That's what happened with me and my girlfriend
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Anonymous WikiZebra
Anonymous WikiZebra
03/17/25 6:51pm
I'm thinking about asking for her number in June, is that too late?
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Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
03/10/25 12:04pm
i have to say i am a girl and you got evrything right
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WikiUser13069BA
03/18/25 12:50pm
I have the same
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Anonymous WikiTiger
Anonymous WikiTiger
03/21/25 9:56am
i honestly hope this girl likes me. she doesnt go to my school but used to. shes been very friendly and activily going out of her way to see me (which i resipricate back), and shes initiated physical contact with me, like shoving or collapsing into me when she laughes but i also dont no what to do to show signs that i like her. can i get some help here.
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WikiMountainFlyer366
03/21/25 9:09pm
Theres this girl in my sixth period and we make eye contact frequently. I first noticed in September 2024 but just thought it was coincidentally. I like her but not sure if she also likes me. I want to talk to her but don't know how to start a conversation. There's usually not a time where I can talk to her privately since she's usually with her friends. My friends say that she mos definitely likes me. I know almost nothing about her so please let me know what I can do.
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Anonymous WikiCaribou
Anonymous WikiCaribou
03/25/25 8:24am
There’s this girl I do like in my school and I’ve told her how I feel about her but she just keep saying she actually have doubts about me and I should actually trying to do better in giving her more attention physically than texting

Please what do you think I should do?
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Anonymous WikiButterfly
Anonymous WikiButterfly
03/29/25 9:50am
She told u what to do all u gotta do now is do it
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Anonymous WikiLemur
Anonymous WikiLemur
04/01/25 1:14pm
How do I tell the difference between her liking me and her just being a good friend?
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