How do Gemini men act when they're in love?
I've been dating this Gemini guy and I think I'm falling for him but I can't tell if he feels the same and it's driving me nuts. How do Gemini men act when they're in love? How can I tell for sure before I say those three little words (so that I know he'll say them back)?
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Geminis are all about play and pleasure, and you can flirt with them by stimulating the parts of them that are leaning into those qualities. You want to be playful. You want to do something that's pleasurable for them and gives mental stimulation. You could be playful and creative with words, for example—that would work really well for someone who's a very strong Gemini. Geminis are also dual-minded about things. So showing them both sides of a coin, "Hey, do you prefer this or that?" would be a very entertaining conversation for a Gemini. They probably prefer both of everything.
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Which behavior is a clearer sign that a Gemini man is in love with you?
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Gemini men are typically independent creatures, so if they go out of their way to spend a lot of time with you and seem to enjoy having you in your life, that means he's falling for you! My boyfriend is a Gemini and I could tell he liked me when he kept finding excuses to hang out with me.
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Be both interesting and interested in conversations. That’s a must. Not saying you have to be an expert in anything and everything. Just showing interest and letting him explain his points of view is already a plus. Somewhere in the explanation are other topics you may be interested in that could be a topic for a different conversation. Is he in to you? If you find him interested in talking to you about even the most mundane topic, then he is. If he is being playful somewhere in between, then he is. If he at least offers to have you join in on activities he enjoys, then he is.If you see him make an effort to adjust to your moods and interests, then he is.
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My Gemini man's love language is being able to have deep conversations with each other! When we first met, he was pretty shy and didn't open up easily. But as we got to know each other he would chat more and more with me. Now we can have conversations for hours about anything and everything! So if you can have a long conversation with a Gemini man, that's a sign that he could be in love
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If a Gemini man starts introducing you to the other people in his life, that could mean that he's serious about you
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I could tell the Gemini guy I was seeing was interested in me when he wanted to spend all his free time with me. Geminis are typically independent so it meant a lot that he wanted to see me so much.
Another sign that he was falling for me was that as we got closer, he started to joke more and show off his witty side! I think that meant he was getting comfortable with me.
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Another sign that he was falling for me was that as we got closer, he started to joke more and show off his witty side! I think that meant he was getting comfortable with me.
I think Gemini men get more protective and caring when they're falling in love with you. For my Gemini man, it manifested in the form of him sending texts throughout the day to ask me how I was doing and check in on me. He didn't do that at the beginning of our talking phase. And he also remembered more of the little things. Like if I mentioned I was going to an event or was going to do something with friends, he would ask me about it the next time we hung out. I could tell that he had developed feelings for me and cared for me.
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A gemini man will likely not make the first move, but he'll sure tell you how he feels if you ask him! Pay attention to his body language: does he look at you a lot and have a loose posture near you like he's super engaged and comfortable around you?
Geminis are super curious and so if this guy likes you he will ask you lots of questions about yourself and the more interesting, witty, and surprising you are the more he will want you. He may also come up to you with fun facts and funny stories of his own to impress you lol. Gemini flirting is all about talking. The key is to never be boring and always have interesting stories to share. Be unpredictable and he'll fall in love with you.
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Geminis are super curious and so if this guy likes you he will ask you lots of questions about yourself and the more interesting, witty, and surprising you are the more he will want you. He may also come up to you with fun facts and funny stories of his own to impress you lol. Gemini flirting is all about talking. The key is to never be boring and always have interesting stories to share. Be unpredictable and he'll fall in love with you.
On the first couple dates I had with a Gemini man, our conversations felt a little superficial, which I thought was understandable because we were getting to know each other. But I think I could pinpoint the moment that he was falling for me because our conversations started getting a lot deeper! He opened up to me and we started having intellectual conversations that were hours long.
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I’ve been with this Gemini guy for like three months,although he just broke up with his ex girlfriend,and I really like him but I don’t know if he feels the same about me,we usually spend a lot of time together,but my problem now is I don’t know what we are doing in the relationship,he doesn’t call me even if I text him it takes him hours to reply me,I’m so confused
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I'm someone who likes routine and stability. I know that Geminis are a more spontaneous sign. I could tell the Gemini guy I was seeing at the time was into me because he was willing to reel himself in a little and not be so spontaneous, because he knew that it stressed me out if I wasn't in the mood for last-minute plans.
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I have been seeing a Gemini man and on average he will fly interstate to come spend the weekend or more days.. would you say he is falling for me???
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My Gemini went silent suddenly after 3year friendship into dating for 6 months i just saw him after 5 months of silence and his appearance was unkept not shaven hair unkept sloppy dressed and in a way unsure posterior. We locked eyes and the feelings were still mutually present what is going on a self sacrifice to love? I'm so sad to be without him and he did not look happy either. What is this?
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I have a crush on a Gemini guy, but he’s my colleague! For a long time, we’ve had long conversations almost every day. He used to care for me a lot. He’s younger than me, but he was very attached to me. Recently, I found out that he’s involved with a woman who is very cunning and spreads office politics. He secretly works for her, and this is making me feel depressed. He never told me whether he likes me or not, but his attitude and jealousy were on a different level. He’s confusing me a lot. I stopped talking to him and have been avoiding him, but I still want to know if he has any feelings for me. How can I find out? Please help me.
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I know one myself, and I find his behaviour to be confusing at times, but I would not paint all Gemini men with the same brush,. everyone is different after all.. Why dont you start talking to another male colleague a lot in front of 'your' Gem? (at least it may show if he has a feeling for u still..or not) Go out with friends have fun, go dancing, live music gigs etc., have a good time and DISTRACT your mind from this confusing boy/man!! Dont give him any control with your emotions.
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Start talking to him again and find out. I think he does have feelings for you. The only way to find out is to stop avoiding him.
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Honestly, I am a Sagittarius and I have a crush on a Gemini, but one thing I overthink about is… “does he even like me back?” He sometimes says mean stuff to me as a joke but also he keeps asking “do you have a crush on anyone?” And he is just mostly nice to me! So like… I don’t really know if he even has a crush on me😃
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He does he's just scared and confused on his feelings because they came so fast for you and they're just like us scared to get hurt 🫶🥹
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Oooh weee I know what you mean, They don’t have a filter sometimes & will say things that sounds mean or rude. The thing is I believe that’s their playful banter & a way that they demonstrate their interest. It’s like the boy that hits the girl on the playground because he likes her. I also feel that they like to test to see how fragile you are. Are you quick on your toes with a comeback? They are thrilled over a challenge. They will sometimes push to see just how far they can go. They seem to be intrigued on the push back. They like to know that you’re your own person & have boundaries. If he constantly like to be around you & he’s trying to see who you like or who likes you, he’s interested.
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