An Essential Guide to the Libra Zodiac Sign

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An in-depth look at the charming & romantic Libra
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Born between September 23 and October 22, Libras are air signs known for their charming, flirty personalities, their diplomacy, and their strong sense of justice. Whether you’re a Libra yourself or trying to get to know one, you’re in the right place. We interviewed professional astrologer Angel Eyedealism to teach you everything you need to know about this charismatic air sign, including their strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, who they’re most compatible with, and more.

TYSK: Libra Personality Traits

As one of the flirtiest signs in the zodiac, Libra is known for being social, charming, and the life of the party. They’re also creative, clever, and diplomatic. Libras can also be indecisive, vain, and tend to avoid conflict. Overall, they’re fair-minded and seek balance and justice in all aspects of life.

Section 1 of 10:

Fast Facts: (Dates, Element, Ruling Planet, & More)

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    • Dates: September 23-October 22
    • Element: Air
    • Modality: Cardinal [1]
    • Birthstones: Sapphire (September), opal and tourmaline (October)
    • Color: Light blue, lavender, pink, pastel green, and white
    • Symbol: Scales [2]
    • Ruling Planet: Venus
    • Famous Libras: Serena Williams, Kim Kardashian, Will Smith, Halsey, Bruno Mars, Gwyneth Paltrow
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Section 2 of 10:

Libra Strengths

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    Libras have a strong sense of justice. The Libra symbol is the scale, representing the sign’s associations with balance, justice, and fairness. Libras have a strong sense of what’s right and what’s wrong. They’re deeply concerned about fairness and don’t like to see others being treated unfairly. They aren’t afraid to stand up for what’s right. [3]
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    They’re very sociable and charming. Libras are social creatures who love being the life of the party. They feel most at ease when surrounded by people and aren’t afraid to be in the spotlight. Libras are naturally charming and flirtatious, and they easily develop friendships and get along well with others. They’re most productive when working with others. [4]
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    Libras are diplomatic. Libras have a charming and diplomatic nature that allows them to find balance and harmony in relationships and situations. They’re skilled at finding common ground and maintaining positive relationships. Their natural ability to connect with others fosters a welcoming atmosphere. [5]
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    They’re open-minded. Libras are great listeners who value hearing the perspectives of others. Because they value balance, they’re open to considering various viewpoints and are often eager to embrace new ideas. They make an effort to understand all sides of an argument or situation before forming an opinion. [6]
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Section 3 of 10:

Libra Weaknesses

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    Libras tend to avoid conflict. Because Libras value peace and harmony, they’re not very open to confrontation or anything they perceive as a conflict. They sometimes avoid expressing their opinions or feelings and avoid addressing challenging situations because they don’t want to feel uncomfortable. [7]
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    They can be superficial. Libras have a strong appreciation for beauty and aesthetics, which can sometimes come off as being superficial. They may spend a lot of time on their appearance, which can make them seem vain. [8] They also sometimes feel smothered by intense emotions, which leads them to develop superficial friendships and relationships rather than building a deep connection with someone.
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    Libras want everyone to love them. While Libras generally have a strong set of values, they want to be liked by everyone, which sometimes causes them to put aside their beliefs to appease others. [9] They also tend to feel insecure if they think someone doesn’t like them, leading to self-pity.
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    They’re often indecisive. Before making a decision, Libras like to consider all their options, which can cause them to take a long time to choose. They may get overwhelmed by their options or they’re afraid of making the wrong decision, which causes them to avoid making decisions altogether. [10]
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Section 4 of 10:

Libra Likes & Dislikes

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  1. This air sign has a sense of adventure. Libras often seek new experiences. They love to travel to exciting places, try new foods, and generally explore the world around them. Libras will try almost anything once.
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    Libras appreciate beauty. Libras are ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty. Because of this, they appreciate all forms of beauty, including art, fashion, music, and nature. Libras often surround themselves with the finer things in life and pay special attention to their appearance. [11]
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    They like partying. With their social nature, it’s no surprise that Libras are party animals. They love spending time with other people, whether it’s at an actual party, engaging in conversations, or simply being surrounded by friends and loved ones. Libras feel most at home in a crowd. [12]
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    Libras don’t like feeling pressured. Libras prefer to take their time and consider all their options before making a decision. [13] Nothing stresses them out more than feeling rushed. They also hate feeling pushed to act a certain way, as this makes them feel very uncomfortable.
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    They dislike arguments. Libras are peacekeepers, so they often feel flustered and uncomfortable during any kind of conflict. They don’t like being confronted, but they hate having to confront someone even more. They prefer to mediate disputes or avoid conflicts altogether rather than actively engaging. [14]
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    Libras don’t like disorganization. Libras are naturally drawn to beauty and aesthetics, so they prefer things to look a certain way. They’re very organized and appreciate structure, so they often become overwhelmed in messy environments or chaotic situations.
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Section 5 of 10:

Libras in Love, Sex, & Romance

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    Libras are highly romantic. Ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, Libras are known for their romantic nature and desire for love. [15] They seek harmony in their relationships and want a partner who is kind and intelligent and who shares their appreciation for beauty and culture. Libras love love, and having a romantic relationship is usually an important goal for them.
    • Libras often express their love through big, romantic gestures. They also make their partners feel loved by being attentive and practicing open communication in the relationship.
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    Libras are very flirtatious. Libras are naturally charming and sociable, so flirting is almost as easy as breathing. [16] They often flirt with everyone, whether they’re interested in them romantically or not, but if they like someone, they go out of their way to get close to them. They’ll likely touch them and try to get to know them on a deeper level.
    • If you want to attract a Libra, Eyedealism recommends, “Appeal to their sense of aesthetics. [Don’t be] rude or gross around a Libra. [They want someone] that is refined and intellectual.”
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    They sometimes struggle to commit. Libras can sometimes be hard to date because of their indecisiveness. [17] They may go back and forth on whether or not they want a committed relationship. They may focus too much on what they want instead of their partner, leading them to come off as self-centered. Libras are also naturally flirtatious, which can cause their partner to think they aren’t committed.
    • According to Eyedealism, “Libras flip flop. When they’re in a relationship, they want to be out of one, and when they’re out of one, all they think about is being in [one].”
    • Eyedealism adds that you can tell a Libra isn’t interested in you “When they become cold and distant or not engaged. They’re supposed to be balancing their energy with your energy… so if they become evasive, that means they’re not interested in you.”
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    Libras are very sensual in the bedroom. Libras love to set the mood with roses and candles. They’re very passionate lovers who enjoy engaging in foreplay and surprising their partners with fun positions. They want their partner to feel special and are often teasing and flirtatious while making love. Libras may love dirty talk and exploring sexual fantasies with their partner. [18]
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Section 6 of 10:

Who are Libras most compatible with?

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    Gemini. It’s highly possible a Libra could find their soulmate in a Gemini. Libras and Geminis are highly compatible, as their banter and intellectual rapport are like a breath of fresh air for the pair. Gemini entertains Libra with their playful wit and sense of humor, while Libra helps Gemini find balance in their restless energy. [19]
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    Leo. Leo and Libra are a strong pairing because of their shared love for social situations. They have a natural attraction to each other, and Libra’s diplomacy and fairness complement Leo’s passion and enthusiasm. Libra’s ability to be fair helps balance Leo’s authoritative nature, resulting in open communication. [20]
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    Aquarius. Another highly compatible sign for Libra is Aquarius. Libra is drawn toward Aquarius’s unconventional outlook and eccentric perspective on life, while Aquarius admires Libra’s diplomacy and eloquence. [21] This pair shares a love for social interactions, intellectual pursuits, and desire for freedom.
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Section 7 of 10:

Who are Libras least compatible with?

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  1. When a Capricorn and a Libra get together, it often results in a battle of wills, as the two signs don’t have much in common. Capricorns are serious, focused, and career-driven, while Libras are more focused on social settings where they can connect and collaborate with others. Because of this, Capricorns often view Libras as too frivolous and indecisive, while Libras think Capricorns are too rigid and pragmatic. [22]
    • Just because Libra and Capricorn aren’t usually compatible doesn’t mean a relationship can’t work. For more details, check out our forum “How can Libra and Capricorn work well together.”
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    Cancer. Cancer and Libra aren’t usually compatible because their emotional needs clash. Cancers are more emotional than Libras, so Libras often feel smothered by their Cancer’s constant need for emotional expression and validation. Cancers are also more willing to address conflict than Libras, which Libras can find overwhelming. [23]
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    Scorpio. Relationships between a Scorpio and a Libra can often be too intense for the pairing. Libras often feel overwhelmed by Scorpios’ emotional intensity and possessiveness. [24] Libras also tend to be more open and honest, while Scorpios are mysterious and secretive, which leads to communication issues in the relationship.
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Section 8 of 10:

Libras in Friendships

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    Libras are charming and sociable friends. Libras are vibrant, sharp-witted people who can make anyone feel like the most important person in the room. Because of this, it’s no surprise that they often have a large group of friends. Libras love getting to know people and are great entertainers. [25]
    • On the other hand, Libras sometimes struggle to maintain deep, lasting friendships. They prefer the casual aspects of socialization and sometimes feel stifled by the intense emotional demands of deeper relationships.
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    Libras want friends who make them feel special. While Libras can make everyone around them feel special, sometimes they want the attention, too. Get to know a Libra by asking them questions about themselves. Compliment them, and go out of your way to make them feel included. [26]
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    Libras are often good friends with Geminis. Geminis are one of the best matches for Libras in both romantic and platonic relationships. Geminis are fun, quick-witted, and always up for a gossip session. They also keep Libras on their toes and inspire them to go on adventures. Because Geminis aren’t afraid to make their voices heard, they often help Libras learn to speak up, too. [27]
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    Libras sometimes struggle to develop friendships with Capricorns. While it’s not impossible for a Libra and a Capricorn to be friends, it can be challenging. These signs have little in common apart from their leadership abilities. This often leads to power struggles in the friendship. [28]
    • If a Libra and Capricorn want to be friends, they must learn to let the other take the lead in different aspects of their lives. Libras are better at developing ideas, while Capricorns are better at managing things.
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Section 9 of 10:

Libras in Career & Money

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    Libras thrive in careers that allow creative self-expression. These social air signs are diplomatic and cooperative, so they often do well in team-based environments. They work their best in peaceful, harmonious environments, so fast-paced, risky jobs aren’t usually a good fit. They prefer careers that allow them to create and bring opposing things to balance. [29]
    • Best careers: music industry insider, psychologist, hospitality executive, interior designer, lawyer, publicist, influencer
    • Challenging careers: mathematician, personal trainer, accountant, sales, construction
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    Libras have a fun, social work style. Libras see their coworkers as their friends, so they enjoy working in environments where they can trust and have fun with their colleagues. They strive to make sure everyone on their team is happy, and they often enjoy the perks that come with a senior job title. Libras are not the type to shy away from the spotlight and love having their work recognized. [30]
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    They sometimes struggle to connect their skills to making money. Libras view work as fun and they tend to avoid uncomfortable situations, so it’s often hard for them to negotiate for larger salaries. They struggle with bargaining and taking an active role in their money management. However, Libras are smart, charming, and resourceful, so they find a way to keep the paychecks coming so they can continue living their luxurious lifestyle. [31]
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Section 10 of 10:

Advice for the Libra Zodiac Sign

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  1. Libras are naturally drawn to beauty and feel most at home in aesthetically pleasing environments. Embrace your love for beauty by surrounding yourself with things you enjoy, like art, fashion, or interior design. [32]
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    Prioritize your social life. Libras are social creatures who often feel best when having fun with others. [33] Everyone needs time to themselves now and then, but if you’re a Libra, be sure to schedule time to go out on the town and hang out with friends. This will likely give you a boost of energy that will improve your mood.
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    Don’t run away from conflict. No one likes conflict, but sometimes, it’s necessary to confront a person or situation so you can find a solution. Try to shift your perspective and see confrontation as an opportunity for growth rather than a hurtful disagreement. Focus on communication and resolution rather than placing blame. Be firm and direct, but also listen to what the other person has to say. [34]
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    Learn to make decisions. Libras often become overwhelmed when making decisions. If you become paralyzed by indecisiveness, take a moment to gather your bearings. Trust your intuition, and think about which options best align with your values. Don’t get caught up in making the “wrong” decision, and have confidence in your ability to choose what’s right for you. [35]
  5. As a Libra, sometimes the best thing you can do for your relationships is learn to love yourself. While you may seem confident on the outside, you may struggle with fears of being disliked or feeling unaccepted. It’s okay not to be liked by everyone. It doesn’t mean you’re a bad person; you’re simply not compatible. If you start to doubt yourself, try some positive self-talk and remind yourself of all your wonderful qualities. [36]
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