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I feel like my best friend won't like me when I ask him if he likes me. I'm scared of rejection and that he will tell everyone. What do I do? Please help me!

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No matter what, you will likely feel better after you ask him. Even if he does not share the romantic feelings, you will at least know where he stands. When asking him if he likes you, let him know that you'd prefer him not to tell anyone about the conversation. If he is a good, trustworthy friend, he should respect your decision.

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I've loved this girl for two years. Now I'm 15, she's 15 soon, and we are best friends. Her ex (who she's unsure if she likes still or not) is a friend of mine. I'm crazy over her. What do I do?

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Honesty is the best policy. If you feel comfortable sharing your feelings with her, open up with her about how you feel and ask her if she feels similarly. Respect her feelings if she's still trying to work things through with her ex, and let her know that you value her friendship no matter what. If she decides to date her ex again, avoid asking her as she may feel conflicted or uncomfortable.

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What if he says yes? How do I react?

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If he says yes, turn the conversation to what both of your next steps are. Determine whether you want to be in a romantic relationship with each other or, if not, how you want to process these feelings.

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I'm a lesbian and I like this girl, but she asked me out before I did. What do I do?

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If she has expressed romantic interest in the past, she might be open to you asking if she still does. Let her know how much you value your friendship and that you think you may like her more than a friend. Remind her of when she asked you out, and ask her if she still feels that way towards you.

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Should I ask an old friend who hates me?

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If you want to ask a person who currently dislikes you, try improving your friendship first. If you can repair and maintain a good relationship with them, they are more likely to have positive feelings for you.

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I like my best friend but I'm way too shy. What can I do to get my confidence up?

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If you struggle with being nervous, try to ask your friend in a comfortable and safe environment. Avoid being around other people when you ask, as you and your friend both might feel social pressure.

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How do I tell her that she's the one with out her thinking I'm messed up in the head?

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Actively listen to her and make sure you take her feelings into consideration. If you let her know respectfully and honestly, she will not likely think you are messed up in the head.

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We are just newly known to each other. She is so frank to me and I doubt that she has a crush on me from somewhere of her heart but she is engaged with our tution teacher. So my question is should I propose her? And if yes then how should I impress her? Plz do ans fast.

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If she is engaged, avoid asking her if she has feelings for you. This will likely cause emotional conflict and possibly damage your friendship.

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How do you say it, though?

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How you say it can depend on a variety of factors. You may feel more comfortable telling them in a serious environment or a more lighthearted one. Think about their personality and your relationship with them, and decide what would be the best approach.

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But what if you are a kid? That stuff is for teenagers.

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If you are a kid, you may not want to ask your friend if they like you. Your friend may not be ready for a romantic relationship. Try waiting until you are older and decide then whether a romantic relationship is right.

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