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    I'm not fully feminine because I like video games. How do I make myself lose interest in video games?
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    That's silly. There's nothing wrong with liking video games, and plenty of girls do. Don't change your whole personality because you want to be more feminine. Keep playing video games if you want to.
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    Should I just embrace who I am if I want to be feminine?
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    Of course. If you want to be feminine and it makes you happy, go for it. If you tried being feminine and you don't feel comfortable, that's fine, as well.
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    I can't buy female clothing because I don't have enough money. What should I do?
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    Thrift shops are a great option when money is tight. You can also ask female friends if they have any clothing or accessories they'd like to get rid of. .
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    I'm wired in a way that I can sometimes be rude or off putting by accident, or I talk too much and act bossy. I also am interested in unfeminine things. How can I learn to be more feminine?
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    You can't be perfect about controlling yourself, but you can improve. Thinking before speaking is key. Before saying anything at all, think about how people might react. Ask yourself if you're being rude or if you're about to tell someone what to do, and if the answer is yes, don't say that thing. If you do accidentally say something rude or offensive, apologize right away. Nobody's perfect and people should understand that. As for your interests, don't try to change them. If you like sports or video games or other things that are traditionally viewed as more oriented to guys, it's fine. It doesn't make you unfeminine and you shouldn't try to change something that's an intrinsic part of who you are.
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    Can I be feminine if I'm a black 12-year-old?
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    Yes, of course. Neither your age nor your race preclude your from being feminine.
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    Could I be feminine with very short hair?
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    Yes. Being feminine doesn't mean you should have long hair, as long as you feel comfortable with what you have.
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    What should a feminine girl keep in her purse?
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    That depends on the girl, it's different for everybody. There are some good suggestions in the article on How to Pack Your Purse .
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    How to be masculine?
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    There are other articles on the site more geared towards your question. Try this one: https://www.wikihow.com/Become-More-Masculine-when-Feminine
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    Do I need to be skinny to look feminine?
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    No. All people have different body shapes and sizes. As long as you love every inch of your body, you are good to go.
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    How can I be feminine if I am in middle school and don't have a lot of dresses?
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    You don't have to wear dresses to be feminine. Try to find things that look good for your body shape and that match.
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    If I want to be feminine, is it okay to get mad at someone who picks on me?
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    Of course it is. Politely ask them to stop. If that does not work, get someone you trust to help you with that problem.
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    How can I become feminine if I am a boy?
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    Most of these tips can also apply to males. A good starter is to wear clothes of a lighter color, change your walk, and remember to keep personal grooming as a high priority. You might also want to read the article on How to Be a Feminine Guy .
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    What if I have no sense of fashion?
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    That's fine. You can focus on how you behave and on improving your posture.
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    What if I am a tomboy and my mom forces me to be a girly girl? Should I give up basketball to appease my ultra-feminine mom?
    RBLife
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    Don't change who you are for your mom. Tell her how you feel, and ask her to try to be less pushy. Remind her that feminism is about being confident and polite, and that she shouldn't be forcing you to change.
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    How do I be feminine when men say mean things to me?
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    Be witty and sarcastic and confident. Hold your head high and tell them to back off.
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    I'm ten years old, and I really like makeup. People tell me I like it because I want to look prettier. Is that true?
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    Only you can answer this question. Those people cannot read your mind. Wearing makeup is a personal choice.
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    I've been a transvestite before. Last week I started wearing lingerie again. Is wanting to be a transexual mental instability?
    Rainy
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    Hi! Transgenderism is not a mental illness or instability. But please note that it is separate from autogynephilia, which is the attraction to a feminine version of yourself. If you feel like you should be a woman, you're probably trans.
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