Q&A for How to Get Ready for a Middle School Dance

Take a deep breath and relax. If you remain calm, you might act less "weirdly" and you'll probably be able to socialize just a little bit more. Realize that he probably feels shy and awkward too, and the best you can do is focus on asking him about things you know he likes to talk about, to break the ice.

Everyone gets nervous doing something like this. Ask them privately so that if they say no, you won't be embarrassed in front of other people. Just push yourself out of your comfort zone and be confident.

Yes, that is fine.

No. A lot of people go with their friends for their very first dance. I went to my first dance with friends and we all had a lot of fun.

All you have to do is say something like, "Hey, do you have a date for the dance yet? I don't either, would you like to go together?" Just keep it casual like it's no big deal, even if you're nervous. If he says no, say "thanks anyway" and ask someone else.

Your relationship to your date doesn't really have to affect what you wear. If you want to wear a dress, a short, casual dress is fine. A skirt and a nice blouse will also work.

You could just go with friends. Why mope around waiting for someone to ask you? If someone you’re interested in goes to the dance, invite them into your group or dance one on one.

If there is someone you like, just ask them. If they say no, just go with a friend, or even go by yourself.

If a boy asks you, go with him. If not, go with your friends. If you end up going with a date, you can still hang out with your friends for a while at the dance as long as you don't totally ignore the guy. Just make sure that you introduce him if your friends don't already know him.

Make sure to ask his girlfriend first, as you don't want to hurt any feelings. If she is okay with it then just ask him.

Just take a deep breath and ask him. If he's not interested, it's not the end of the world. Everybody gets embarrassed, it won't kill you. If he says no, say, "That's okay, maybe all see you there anyway," and just walk away.

You don't need to fit in, just be yourself. Don't base your self-worth on how much the "popular kids" like you. If you really want to be friends with them, ask if they want to get ready together with you, or wear something that'll make you stand out. Once again, it's not important to fit in, it's a lot more fun if you go with people who you like and they like you back.

Practice. If you haven't decided what you are going to do, then stop procrastinating and plan it. If you have already planned it, start practicing now. An hour a day of effective practice will take you to your goal.

Most do. It depends on what middle school you go to. You can check with the administrative office to find out whether there are any planned.

If there's no one to go with, there's nothing wrong with going by yourself if you really want to go. Otherwise, think outside the box and ask someone you don't know that well. You can specify that it's just a "friend date" if you want to.

You can ask someone. It was the "boy's job" many years ago, but that's changed now. Most boys would probably really like it if a girl asked them, and the worst thing that could happen is they say no.

If you have a crush in mind, then just ask him! If you don't have someone in mind, just go with friends. It is better to go with friends than a boy you don't care for.

Go for it! Ask him how he's doing and if he's having a nice time. You can also ask him who he came with and compliment him on whatever he's wearing. If you're not sure he knows who you are, it might be a good idea to try to introduce yourself at some point before the dance.

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Give him a deadline to decide by so that you can ask someone else if he ends up saying no. Don't let him just leave you hanging. You deserve a straight answer. In the meantime, you can still plan your outfit and everything, it doesn't really matter who you're going with.

It depends on where the party is. If it is at a friends home, it's probably informal and you can wear everyday clothes. If it's at a party center, it is probably more formal and you should wear a nice dress or pair of slacks with a dressy top.

First, ask your friends or teachers if they know anything. Also, read the information related to the dance. If it's an "Outer Space" themed dance, or something like that, chances are it's casual. If it's an end of year 8th grade dance, it's most likely formal or semi-formal. But if you're really unsure, just dress in between. Wear a nice blouse (no graphic tees or tank tops) or a polo shirt, and some nice pants or even a knee-length skirt. Bring a bag with accessories that are more fancy, and if it turns out to be a formal event, head to the bathroom and style yourself accordingly.

If it's informal, wear some nice sandals depending on the weather. If it's semi-formal ,then maybe some pretty gym shoes that have really nice color or designs. If it's formal, maybe wear some designer boots, depending on the weather.

If you need the courage to ask someone, ask to speak with them after school. If they say no, then it's okay, because no one else will be around. If you need the courage to be at the event and be dancing, don't worry about it! There will be a lot of people around and everyone will be dancing and having a good time. You'll fit right in!

Wear a shirt with a collar and buttons and you'll probably be fine.

It means she wants to attend the dance with you, but she wants you to know that she just sees you as a friend, not a potential romantic partner. That doesn't mean you can't go and have a nice time, she'll probably even dance with you, but she doesn't want to be your girlfriend.

You never have to go with anyone to a school dance. In fact, a lot of kids just go with their friends! You'll have a good time either way.

It's fine if you want to wear a white coat, but it isn't compulsory. If you're still not sure about wearing it, ask your friends what they're wearing, or ask your date for input.

Pink or red are good colors. A red and pink striped dress with black leggings would look nice.