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How do I express my hurt feelings to my partner?

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Ask to have a conversation when your boyfriend isn't busy. Then, explain how their actions have made you feel. Use "I feel" statements, like "I feel like you're ignoring me" or "I feel like you don't prioritize me."

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What should I do if he’s ignoring me because of he’s stressed because of his problems?

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Give him some time to figure out his problems on his own. You can also show your support by telling him that you're there if he needs you. Once he's not stressed anymore, he'll probably be open to hanging out with you again.

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What to do if he is online but not contacting you?

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You could try sending him a message to see if he responds. However, just because he's online doesn't mean he's not busy, so he might not be ignoring you on purpose.

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How long will it be before he talks to me?

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If you start a conversation with him, he'll hopefully stop ignoring you right away. If he's working through some problems or needs some time for himself, it could be a little while before he's ready to talk.

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My fiancé is ignoring me just to tease me, what should I do?

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If you don't like him ignoring you, tell him how it makes you feel. If he still doesn't get it, sit him down and tell him that it's a deal breaker for you. Just because he's doing it to be silly doesn't mean it's okay.

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