Q&A for How to Get a Man to Marry You

First, make him a priority. Then communicate honestly and consistently so it’s clear that you are committed to him. Eventually you can talk about the future in a way that always includes him. When you take the time to create a solid foundation with someone, it becomes clear that you want to build a future with them.

He won't make excuses; he will make time. He will find beauty in your uniqueness and your flaws. He will accept you for who you are and not want to change you. He will take pride in introducing you to his friends and family. When he thinks of his future, you're definitely in it. If you are in need, he will be there for you. He will support everything you do, whether it be abstract finger painting or studying law. He will value your opinion and listen when you're talking.

You should respect yourself first. You need to show him that you respect yourself more than anyone does, and establish your boundaries if necessary. If he's a good man, then there's no need for you to ask for respect. A man who truly loves you will respect you no matter who you are.

Bring it to the forefront as soon as the opportunity presents itself, considering how important a child is. If he struggles with the idea over time, it's likely an indication to move on.

He has told you he is not ready, so you need to hear him and take him at his word. He may just need more time, or it may end up that he never wants to get married. You have to decide if you are willing be in this relationship without marriage. If not, then you should move on.

You should think about what you want in life. Have a discussion with him about what he wants in life, and discuss what your wants and needs are. If you disagree, find out why. Everyone has their own reasons, and you will not know his until you talk with him. If you think you will never get want you want out of the relationship with him, you may have to leave him.

There isn't a "correct" age to get married, but you should wait until you and your significant other have reached some career or educational goals. You may decide that you want to wait until you graduate high school or college, or even until you finish an advanced degree. Whatever goals you set, if you both feel that you are ready for the commitment of marriage, then go ahead. Do what will ultimately make you both happy.

Remind him that every relationship is different, you are not his ex, etc. Talk to him about the problems he had in relationships before and come up with solutions to avoid these problems.

Move on. He clearly doesn't appreciate you and is not worth your time. Also understand that what 'the right qualities' are varies from person to person. There are certain things you should always do in a healthy relationship, but if the two of you are simply not right for each other, you shouldn't force it.

Ask him why, but not in a defensive or intimidating manner. He might not be ready to take the relationship to the next level yet. Once you know where both you and your partner stand, you can decide whether to wait for him or move on to another relationship.

He may still have doubts or may not be fully committed. Try telling him how you feel about his stalling and tell him nicely and be willing to listen to his explanation. He may want more time to think and may not be sure yet or may think you both as a couple need more time. Be patient and considerate because if you want to marry him he should be worth waiting for. But if he's not really committed, talk to him about why he doesn't want to commit and if needed move on. Always remember to be polite and considerate and tell him how you feel.

It means that he wants to be stable before rushing into marriage. Give him time to get his life together. And if you want, assure him that those things don't matter to you. But there's no need to rush it.

Take a vacation, a surprise mini-getaway or anything out of the ordinary, spontaneous, and fun that will involve doing something he enjoys doing besides work. Or stay home and do something he might enjoy. Cook/bake something he loves, wear lingerie, and get his favorite wine/beer. Prepare a bath for both of you with candles, massage oils, etc.

Not allowed? If you mean that you're under-age and your parents refuse permission, you may have to just wait. Getting married too young can result in many difficulties, so it's not necessarily a bad thing to have to give it more time. If you're meant to be together, time will simply test and strengthen your love.

If she's religious, there's nothing wrong with that.

Tell him honestly. He should respect your feelings.

Yes, it sounds like he plans to ask you. Try not to worry too much about the age difference. It sounds like you love each other and are both serious about the relationship, and that's all that matters.

Talk with him about that next step. Some couples don't marry for years and they like living that way. Let him know if you are interested in marrying him. There is nothing wrong with asserting your relationship.

Communication is important. If he feels comfortable telling his friends, but not you, let him know how that affects you. He may not realize that he seems distant to you.

It really is up to you. Are you willing to wait for him, or potentially never get married? If not, you should move on and find someone else.

He will spend a lot of time with you. He will call you and text you when the two of you are not together. He will introduce you to his friends and family and talk about the future with you. He'll take a genuine interest in your life, asking you how your day was, remembering your likes and dislikes, etc.

If he denies that you are together or dating, then it sounds as though you're the only one in the relationship who considers him your boyfriend. Find someone who's into you and who's proud to be with you.

Forget it! Money isn't everything, and marriage is based on trust. After 2 years, he's not "ready" to introduce you to his family? He's clearly hiding something, and you deserve better. Dump him!

Love may take time to grow. There's no need to be confused, it sounds like he's being honest about his feelings. He loves you, since he's been with you for quite a while now, and his feelings are growing, because he's not running away at the mere mention of marriage, but he honestly feels it's not the right time for him yet, but that it may well be the right time sometime soon. Don't ask him too often: what if he's preparing a proposal, but if you ask him this, it ruins the timing?

If that's his response to marriage, then he's not really in love with you. Financial status shouldn't matter to someone when they're in love; that implies they care more about their image than they do about you, and that's not the kind of person who's going to make a good spouse.

He will include you in his future plans, whether it's buying a home, raising children, vacation plans, or him outright saying "I want to spend my life with you." Some men say all those things, but still need time to propose. Be patient. If you feel that he is sincere with you, just give him a reasonable amount of time.

You cannot convince anyone to do anything, but you can talk about why marriage and commitment are important to you. Ask him why he is afraid, respect his feelings and listen to what he has to say before discussing the issue further.

Definitely not. He's not just leaving Sydney, he's leaving you. Let him go and find someone who wants to be with you.

As the saying goes, "the best way to get over a man is to get under another." Find someone else or something else to occupy your time. This will help you to forget your ex. Go out with your friends and cultivate good relationships in all areas of your life.

You can't. You can leave him. He may realize that he wants to be with you.