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How do I make him miss me?

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Try waiting an hour or two before responding to his texts or messages. The next time he messages you, do your best not to respond immediately. Finding the right balance between being unavailable and too available can be hard, but striking this balance gives him a chance to miss you while staying in contact.

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I'm shy, introverted, and sometimes seem angry. How am I going to flirt with him/her if it makes me uncomfortable?

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Even if you like someone, you should never do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Try to establish a friendship with them first, so you can see if they're really right for you. If the other person knows you well, they'll appreciate your good qualities without you having to be overly flirty.

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What if you're wearing a school uniform?

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We've got many tips on how to look good in a uniform. Depending on your school's policies, you might be able to get his attention with accessories, hairstyles, or small uniform adjustments.

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What if my boyfriend takes a picture of me? Does it mean that my boyfriend likes me or is it something else?

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Usually, when you take a photo of someone, it's because they're important to you or part of an important moment in your life. If your boyfriend is taking photos of you frequently, then that seems like a good sign that he's into you.

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How do I get out of the friend zone?

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A lot of online advice tells you to play hard to get and try to make him jealous. Well, that might work, but it's often smarter just to ask him out. Invite him to a casual date, but use that word so he understands it's not just a hangout. Take it slow so he can get used to the idea before you start confessing your love.

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How do I respond to his texts? I don't want to seem like I was waiting for him to text me, but I don't want to seem like I don't care either.

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Waiting an hour or two is a good general rule. Feel free to reply sooner if things are going well.

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What if he already has a girlfriend?

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Are you comfortable trying to end his relationship? You'll be creating quite a bit of drama and unhappiness, depending on how serious they are. If you decide it's worth it, let him know you like him and leave the final decision up to him.

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What if most of the guys at your school are immature and think you're weird?

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If they don't have the same interests or maturity level as you, then they're probably not the right guy for you. School isn't the only place to meet a guy. Get involved with sports, clubs, and other activities in your community so you can meet guys from other schools.

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What if you already asked him out and he said no?

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Sadly, it's time to move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.

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What if you barely know the guy and don't want to talk to him?

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It's always best if you get to know a guy first -- that way, you'll be better able to tell if he's right for you. But if you don't want to talk to him, try sending a text or an email to start a conversation.

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This guy tried to put his arm around my shoulders, and the next day he kept grabbing my hips while we were playing soccer. Does it mean he likes me?

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It definitely seems like he was flirting with you, which usually indicates that a guy is interested.

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What if the guy I'm interested in is an ex who has moved on but is my most recent ex?

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If you ex has moved on, it's probably a good idea to move on yourself.

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