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What should I say when I reach out to her?

Christina Jay, NLP
Matchmaker & Certified Life Coach
Christina Jay is a Matchmaker and Certified Life Coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Christina is the founder of Preferred Match (preferredmatch.ca), her matchmaking service that finds love for successful and elite individuals. She has over 10 years of coaching experience, earned her NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) certification through NLP Canada Training, and has a BA in Business Administration from Brock University.

Christina Jay, NLP

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Simply reach out and say you’ve been thinking about her a lot and you wanted to reach out. It’s better to try and see what happens rather than keep waiting and wonder what could happen.

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If we haven't seen each other in two years and she is a year younger than me, would it be ok to ask her out too?

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In most cases, yes. However, you shouldn't just start by asking her out. Talk to her first. Spend some time -- days or even a week or two -- find out what she's been up to over the last couple years. Then, ask if she wants to meet up for something simple and low stakes. Maybe a concert or even just a walk in the park.

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How do I talk to girl that I haven't seen in a while when I run into her at work?

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Just talk to her about simple, work related stuff, then find out what she does for fun, and if she is in a relationship.

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What can you say in a message to a friend on facebook that you haven't seen in a while?

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Just try something simple and honest. For example, say "Hey! What's going on? I was thinking you the other day."

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Me and my ex haven't spoken in a long time... I'm meeting her again but she doesn't know because it's a surprise... What should I say?

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First off, be care with surprises like that. You don't want to come off as if you are stalking her or anything of the sort. Without more information, it is hard to tell you what to do. You should, though, go easy and don't apply too much pressure. Just act natural and be nice. Maybe joke around.

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