Am I Falling in Love?

Take this quiz to see if true romance has found you!

What’s this feeling? Is it true love? Or maybe just a passing crush? Love can be tricky, so we’re here to help you sort out those funny feelings.

Just answer these quick questions about your emotions, and we’ll tell you if what you’re feeling could be the romance you've been waiting for.

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Questions Overview

1. Picture their face. How do you feel?
  1. Warm and relaxed, like I’m home.
  2. Excited and nervous. My pulse starts racing!
  3. Curious and interested. I want to know more.
  4. Confused. I don't know what to think...
2. If they asked you to be in a relationship with them right now, would you?
  1. Absolutely. Yes. No question.
  2. Probably, but take me to dinner first!
  3. Woah, woah, this is way too fast. Pump the brakes.
  4. Yes...No...Maybe...I don't know!
3. How often do you think about this person?
  1. All day, every day. It’s honestly pretty distracting.
  2. At least a few times a day. They’ll just randomly pop into my head
  3. A few times a week, probably. Enough to make me wonder if my feelings are real...
  4. Not very much at all.
4. When you think of them, what's the first thing you think about?
  1. Everything. Their essence, their personality. In my eyes, they’re like sunshine.
  2. Our most recent conversation. I love the way we interact with each other..
  3. Their looks. They're gorgeous.
  4. Something else.
5. Imagine your ideal life in 5 years. Are they somewhere in the picture?
  1. Yes! In my ideal future, we’re side by side, committed, and close.
  2. I hope they’re still in my life in some way, exploring what we mean to each other.
  3. It’s too soon to say. I’m not sure yet.
  4. Definitely not.
6. Imagine they start dating someone else. How do you feel?
  1. Despair. Hopelessness. Darkness.
  2. I'd feel pretty bummed, but not totally devastated.
  3. Ah well. Moving on!
  4. A little relieved. Missed my chance, but that's one less thing for me to worry about.
7. Would you tell them your deepest secret right now, if it meant you could be with them?
  1. In a heartbeat. I want to tell them everything about me anyway.
  2. I think I would, but it wouldn't be easy.
  3. Maybe, but I’d want them to tell me a secret too.
  4. No, definitely not.
8. How's your mood been lately? (Trust us, it matters!)
  1. I feel like I'm on top of the world, honestly. I feel fantastic.
  2. I feel pretty happy! Things are just a little... brighter!
  3. I feel pretty normal. Nothing special.
  4. It's complicated.
9. Be honest: Do you want to be falling in love with this person?
  1. Yes, yes, yes!
  2. I'd enjoy that, I think.
  3. I can't really tell. Maybe.
  4. No. Never.
10. Someone totally new comes and asks you out. Do you accept?
  1. No! My heart already belongs to someone else.
  2. Probably not. It just wouldn't feel right.
  3. Sure. What's the harm?
  4. Definitely. As long as they're cute.
11. Does anything about them give you the ick?
  1. Nothing. To me, they're perfect and can do no wrong.
  2. There's 1 or 2 things that make me uncertain, but they're no big deal.
  3. They've got a few huge flaws, yeah.
  4. Everything about them makes me ick.
12. Imagine you're alone in a room with them. What happens next?
  1. We sit next to each other and just sit in comfortable silence. We don't need to force conversation.
  2. We talk for hours, just chatting and getting to know each other. It's nice.
  3. It's a little awkward, but we break the ice and have a nice time.
  4. I'm uncomfortable. Get me out of here.

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Top 5 Signs You’re Falling In Love

You can’t keep your mind off them. It’s probably the most obvious sign. As you go about your day, they keep popping into your head like a wonderful weed. Sipping coffee, walking to class or work, even while listening to someone else talk—there they are. It’s like they’ve pulled up a chair in your brain and won’t go away, and you kind of like it.

You get flustered around them. Even if you’re usually a cool customer, when you’re in love, you tend to get at least a little nervous whenever you talk to your crush. You start stumbling over your words, or you draw a blank and don’t even know what to say. Your brain is short-circuiting because you’re in love!

You feel the need to share things with them. You want to share your thoughts and tell them about your day. You want to spill your guts and tell them all your little secrets. But it’s not just thoughts, either. You also want to share food, advice, or just your time. It’s like you feel a magnetic pull, or you’ve been caught in their gravity.

You start to notice little things about them. The way they twirl the ends of their hair between their fingers, or the way they eat their vegetables before the rest of their meal. When you’re in love, they have your full attention, and so it’s only natural that you start to notice things about them that you didn’t before. More importantly, you find these things totally irresistible.

Life is a little brighter. Love has a funny way of putting a skip in your step and making everything shine, where before things might have been totally ordinary, or even drab. People seem friendly, colors seem brighter, the air smells nicer. Love is a powerful drug, after all, and also the best one.

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