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If you're a Taurus woman with your eye on a Gemini man, you may be wondering if you two have enough in common to make it work. He's social and adventurous while you prefer to indulge in creature comforts at home. But you know what they say—opposites attract! Read on to learn everything you need to know to snag that gorgeous Gemini and keep him by your side.

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Hang out in the same places he does.

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Ask him open-ended questions.

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  1. Boredom and routine are a Twin's worst enemies. As a Taurus, you cherish your routines and live a grounded, stable life—just don't tell him that! If you want to hook him, keep him talking—he'll be thrilled that someone wants to hear about him. You can endear yourself to him this way without even having to do much.
    • Gemini is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication and thinking. He'll be right in his comfort zone if you ask him a thought-provoking question about philosophy or world affairs.
    • You might also bring up any topic that's recently been in the news and ask his opinion on it—he's certain to have one, and can probably argue the other side as well.
    • Appeal to his dual-minded nature by asking him, "Do you prefer this or that?" on topics ranging from famous artists to favorite foods.
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Listen to his tales of adventure.

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  1. Gemini loves to play and have fun. He lives for seeing new places and learning new things—and he'll want to tell you all about it. While, as a Taurus, you don't necessarily share his adventurous spirit, you're definitely a great listener.
    • Contribute what you know about the places he's been and compare your knowledge to his lived experience. It's a learning opportunity for both of you!
    • If he ever remarks about the fact that you don't tend to go off on adventures yourself, tell him you do all of your adventuring vicariously through him—he'll be thrilled to think that you're waiting expectantly for his stories.
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Encourage him to go out and explore.

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  1. As a Taurus woman, you tend to be a more introverted homebody who focuses on one person at a time. Your favorite Gemini, on the other hand, prefers to leap from one experience to the other, rarely settling in one place for too long. Assure him that you don't mind his wanderings and you'll always be waiting with open arms when he returns. [2]
    • He's always making new friends, but trust him to stay true to you. He doesn't enter relationships lightly and won't stray—he just needs his freedom.
    • If you're a typical Taurus who likes to have her partner close by her side, this can occasionally be tough for you. Just remind yourself that he will be back and he'll have exciting new adventures to tell you about.
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Keep your plans loose.

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  1. For a Taurus lady who prefers the stability of well-laid-out plans, this can be hard for you to handle. The best way to approach a date with your Gemini guy is not to have a plan at all—he's great at winging it and you won't have to fret when your careful itinerary falls by the wayside.
    • Even if he knows that you don't tend to play it fast and loose, he'll appreciate the fact that you're willing to let go a little when you're with him.
    • If you do need to make specific plans for something—say, a dinner reservation or concert tickets—let him know about that commitment and keep everything around it loose. That gives him the opportunity to do something spontaneous.
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Work on a project as a team.

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  1. The two of you shine with big projects because you each have well-defined roles. He's a doer who loves to tackle things head-on and you're strong with budgeting, planning, and other practical necessities that he typically finds too boring to worry about. Together, you're certain to accomplish whatever you set your minds to.
    • For example, if you've always wanted to remodel your bathroom, he's the perfect person to take that on with. He also has a great eye for style and quality—you won't overpay if you've got a Gemini reviewing your purchases.
    • Keep in mind that you might lose his interest on longer-term projects. If something stretches out over longer than a week, he's likely to get bored and you'll find yourself finishing on your own.
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Be patient and understanding.

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  1. As a Taurean woman, you have plenty of patience—and a Gemini man, unfortunately, will likely put it to the test. In a relationship, you're likely to find his flighty nature and inability to focus exhausting. [3]
    • Reminding yourself why he is the way he is will help you have more patience with him. For example, he's indecisive because he wants to make sure he's completely analyzed all sides of an issue before he makes up his mind.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 1319 wikiHow readers about the most frustrating part of dating a Taurus, and 76% agreed that it’s when they give you the cold shoulder due to their stubbornness. [Take Poll]
    • So Taurus, in order to be the patient and understanding partner of his dreams, do your best to avoid this behavior!
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Offer to make his ideas reality.

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  1. He's a creative guy and is likely to come up with some pretty great ideas. The problem is that he'll quickly get bored and want to move on to something new. That's where you come in!
    • For example, he might mention the idea of turning his spare bedroom into a library. When you show up with plans for shelves and decor, along with a budget and schedule for completion, he'll be so glad he has you in his life.
    • Taurus women are known for sticking with something to the bitter end. Take his ideas and run with them—he'll be stoked with the results.
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Provide him with support.

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  1. Yes, he likes to run off on exciting adventures and try new things all the time—this is why he needs a grounding influence in this life. [4] As a Taurus, you're perfectly suited to provide this for him if only you can learn to let him go when he needs to.
    • For example, maybe he has a dream to go backpacking around Europe or Southeast Asia. For a Taurus lady, this likely sounds awful—but you can monitor his finances, store his belongings, and take care of his pet while he fulfills his dream.
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      • In the bedroom, Geminis are pretty open to trying new things and they can get bored quickly. This could be a problem for the average Taurus, who may struggle to break out of their routine, but it's one of the best ways I know to get a Gemini interested in you and convince them to stick around!
      • Try to do something unexpected. Geminis need new experiences and like to have fun, and they will get bored of you if you're predictable. Ask them on a date to try something new or do something weird, like skydiving or ghost hunting. They'll remember you!
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