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Sometimes it's so hard to stay quiet in class. When you think of something truly hilarious, it almost feels painful to wait until the bell rings to share it. It's perfectly normal to want to talk, but it can also make it difficult for you (and your classmates) to focus. Try out these methods to help you keep side conversations or random remarks to a minimum! You'll have plenty of time to talk after school.

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Think before you speak.

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  1. Sometimes it's hard to remember to filter your thoughts. Think about if what you want to say is related to the class discussion. If it's not, wait until class is over to share what you're thinking. Even the funniest joke in the world can wait until break! [3]
    • If it’s at all disruptive, like "This subject is boring, is class almost over?" don’t say that out loud.
    • Another good trick is to raise your hand. While waiting to be called on, think about what you want to say. If it's not related to the subject your teacher is discussing, put your hand down and remain quiet.
    • Always raise your hand when you have a question about class. Not talking during class doesn't mean your questions about the lesson should go unanswered.
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Keep a notebook at your desk.

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  1. It’s hard to have side conversations when you’re too busy writing down the latest vocab words! If you really struggle to talk, you can write down thoughts you have in your notebook instead of saying them. [4]
    • Classroom notes should take priority, but if you think of a joke you want to tell your friend, write that down, too. That way you can remember it after class and share it with your friend!
    • You can also use your notebook to write down anything you want to talk about after class. For example, instead of talking to your friend during a lesson, write down, "Remember to tell Jimmy that my mom said it was okay for them to stay the night this weekend."
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Avoid responding to classmates.

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  1. It can be hard to know how to stop responding to talkative people in class. Do your best to politely tell the students around you that you can’t talk until class is finished. After that, ignore their comments. They’ll get the message and stop trying to talk. Side conversations can be really distracting to teachers, and it’s hard to follow along with the lesson in the middle of another conversation! Try your best to avoid talking with your classmates to really focus. [6]
    • While you're in the hallway before class, try taking your talkative classmates aside and say something like “I’m not going to talk during class anymore, so can we talk at lunch instead?”
    • Try not to be impolite if your friends talk to you during class. Always be kind and ask them nicely not to pester you while you focus.
    • Yelling "SHH!" across the room is no better than talking.
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Ask your friends for help.

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  1. Try asking one of your friends to give you a cue whenever you start to talk in class. Maybe they can cough or tap your shoulder. Whatever cue you decide on, make sure it doesn’t involve them talking to you at all or it defeats the purpose. [7]
    • Ask a friend that doesn’t usually talk in class. Try something like, “Hey Sam, I’m trying to do a better job at not talking in class. Next time I try to talk to you, can you tap a pencil on your desk as a cue for me to stop?”
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Don’t get discouraged if you struggle to keep quiet.

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Reward yourself for succeeding.

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  1. Positive reinforcement helps you keep up the good work and stay motivated. As you meet your goals, reward yourself with a piece of candy, 10 extra minutes of playtime after school, or something else you enjoy. It’s hard to stay quiet all day in school, and you deserve it! [12]
    • Talk to your parents about a reward system that you both agree on. Maybe your mom can take you out for ice cream at the end of the week if you promise to be quiet and focused in class!

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    How can I focus on what my teacher's saying during class?
    Katie Styzek
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    Katie Styzek is a Professional School Counselor for Chicago Public Schools. Katie earned a BS in Elementary Education with a Concentration in Mathematics from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She served as a middle school mathematics, science, and social studies teacher for three years prior to becoming a counselor. She holds a Master of Education (M.Ed.) in School Counseling from DePaul University and an MA in Educational Leadership from Northeastern Illinois University. Katie holds an Illinois School Counselor Endorsement License (Type 73 Service Personnel), an Illinois Principal License (formerly Type 75), and an Illinois Elementary Education Teaching License (Type 03, K – 9). She is also Nationally Board Certified in School Counseling from the National Board for Professional Teaching Standards.
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    Try taking notes during class to help you better focus on the material being taught.
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    How should I react if someone tells a very funny joke that distracts the class?
    Madeleine Criglow
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    It can be really hard not to laugh when someone interrupts the class with a funny joke. Do your best not to get distracted and pay attention to the teacher's instructions.
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    How can I be more organized in class?
    Madeleine Criglow
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    Try keeping a notebook or binder for each class subject. During class, take notes and try to keep side conversations to a minimum.
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