How do I rizz up a girl I just met?

Dont be cheesy or anything, be like you, be nice to her, compliment her, but dont be creepy and say something like "where do you live" all of a sudden, if she feels comfortable, just ask her lil personal stuff like "whats your name?" but do be sure to stop after few minutes.

Dress or act in an attractive way. That should get the girl's attention.

I like to think about a few topics to talk about before I approach, just so there isn't any awkward silence. I have a rule of three, I like to use: one thing about me, one thing about her, and one thing about the environment around us. I think it’s easiest to start with the last one. Like, you can start up a conversation about how busy the cafe is and joke about how hard it is to study when handsome strangers keep coming up to say hi ;)

I am a girl and if I would want a boy to be nice and caring. Also never make fun of someones body shape or be racist or disrespectful. Also never act like she is not capable. DON'T LISTEN TO STEREOTYPES. Not all girls like makeup or things that you would expect according to stereotypes. Find out who she really is not who she makes herself seem. Thank you for reading all of this sorry its long.

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Fully agree on the eye contact thing. Makes it so much easier to break the ice and then you’re already halfway to starting a conversation. If someone doesn’t smile back, I don’t even bother trying to approach them.

walk up to her and say "hi."

i am to scared to ask my crush for her phone number

Why do I need a pick up line when I'm trying to pick you up at nine?

You can choose to make the first move if you are courageous

u need to be confident and look hot

just say hi

Say hi

Honestly though. You need to look good, and confident, and I wouldn't use PICKUP LINES! I'm a girl and I HATE them so much.

i see this girl everyday and she always acts shy around me and i was wondering if you guys could help me. How do i have fun with her? and How can i get her to talk more because she is shy?

I have a question sir what type of jokes are woman mainly into

Is she also a regular at the cafe? Is she also studying? If so, these give you a few opportunities to strike up a conversation with her. You can ask her about what she's drinking or what she usually orders and frame it in a way that you're interested in learning about what's good on the menu. You can also try to ask her about what she's working on or, if you're feeling daring, ask if you could share a table with her. The sharing the table strategy works if the cafe is particularly crowded or if you explain to her that you tend to work better when you're working in parallel with someone. Good luck!

Ngl, it's getting rarer and rarer for people to go up to other people and strike up a conversation or try to ask them out. You'll have to assess if the vibe is right for you to try and rizz her up or if you'll just come across as creepy. Also, be careful about approaching her while she's settled in at her table. Since you'd be coming into her space, she doesn't really have an easy out if she wants to cut off the conversation. If you're able, try to engage with her when she's just coming or just leaving the coffee shop so it's easy for her to break off the conversation if she's not interested. To strike up a conversation, maybe reference something around you (like a fun seasonal item on the menu) or pay her a nice compliment (NOT about her body. Maybe about an accessory).

man up and talk to her

I'm lost. Can you give me directions to your heart?

This is straight aura

rizz her up ;)

I would be staring at a sexy looking man and if he comes over to my table and leans close to me... I would think about it for YEARS

Just earn serious money, get fit, be confident, be great at starting out conversations and try and find out what she is into, e.g. harry porter and tennis. Watch all harry porter movies, study all characters and their characteristics. Learn tennis watch iconic tennis tournaments and study all tennis players. You'll be able to talk about her interests for hours and you or her can invite you to watch tennis games, that will automatically be a date. Take a therapy course online so you can make her feel better when times are though.

how can I rizz up my crush when I cant talk to him without stumbling around

you should SO talk to her!! don't be afraid, sometimes all a girl wants is someone to talk to her, even if she doesn't like u back shell probably be really thankfully for u talking to her. u got this u wont be awkward

don't touch her

Hi I am in 8th grade and I like this girl in one of my classes, she knows who I am but everytime I talk to her I feel like I'm getting nowhere. We both volunteer at the thrift shop near our school, but she rarely shows up. Please give me some advice, I will take anything. Thanks.

Get her to smile then say she has a pretty smile then ask her out that night

be super casual about it- literally just bump into her and tell her her hair looks good or EVEN better! ask her what she studies and be genuinely curious about it! there's no good feeling like being recognized intellectually. if she SAYS no, then of course back off, but if she doesn't seem interested at first, don't give up on trying. most girls are usually really shy or don't believe a guy is actually committed to them, so if at first she doesn't respond ENTHUSIASTICALLY, try again once or twice. if she softens up, you've definitely got her!

Honestly? A lot of these comments seem over the top with how you should approach it. All you really need to do is just be friendly. Waving consistently has a really big impact, as does quick conversations about simple things. It doesn't need to be big and bold for her to notice, and in my opinion, that means she really does care. And of course, try to be her friend first, and then go from there. Hope this helps!

Just go up to her and be like "ei was up beautiful", kidding pls dont upvote lol

You should go up to her and just say hi and introduce yourself, ask if she comes here often, and if she says no, say Oh, would you want to hang out at ...... If she says yes, say Oh, cool, so do I. We should get coffee sometime. I think you're very beautiful. As for her noticing you, I don't think you need to get her to notice you, as girls we usually notice all of our surroundings no matter what, so she probably has already noticed you.

Chat, did you even read the steps above? You just need confidence! Call her pwincess and see if she needs an alpha! Always works chat and hope this helped!

Same with me a school

Be sexy.

slowly approach her and compliment her hair, bag, or face girls love it when they do that

What if she ignores you?

ask her out and maybe she will give u her number

lol so ima girl and u don’t have to rizz up a girl, u just have to be urself! Show interest in them here and there but don’t rush the process be patient. compliment her and then don’t go on a one on one date but go with a couple other girls and a couple other guys and u can go watch a movie or smth and then go out to dinner that’s what I would do if I was a guy looking at a girl but I’m a girl. Don’t rizz her up just be U!!! and be honest with her a girl loves an honest guy

Winning someone over isn’t about tricks—it’s about connection. If you saw her and she caught your attention, the first step isn’t to impress her but to be yourself with confidence. Instead of thinking about how to make her notice you, ask yourself how you can start a genuine conversation. A simple “Hey, how’s your day going?” can be more effective than any rehearsed line. The key is the energy you bring. If you’re relaxed and have no expectations, you create space for a natural interaction. Attraction isn’t about the words you say, but how you feel about yourself when you say them. So take a breath, smile, and let the conversation flow.

Coming from a girl, I'm just gonna make this easier on you. It really depends. If you just met her try to NOT introduce yourself. Try to let her come to you. Try walking by her a few times or holding the door open for her and a few other people. Look directly at her and smile! Also make sure you don't look like poop. Smooth out your hair and brush of your clothes BUT NOT IN FRONT OF HER!!! Smile and if she drops something get it from her. Ask around for who she is or maybe just complement ONE thing. Just one. Too many sounds awkward and is to flirty-flirty. Say her shirt or bag is nice. If she has Jordans or Converse complement those. ONCE AGAIN WAIT for her to ask your name. If you go the same school as her try hanging out with her a little (not too little not too much). Don't rush in! If you know her then give her a gift on her birthday (and no, 'oh its and early birthday gift 6 months early) if you get some candy or whatever give her some, and only ones she likes. Or, literally just sit 2 seats apart from her. Not one next to her, and DEFINITELY not across from her. If she knocks something over you should be the first one to grab some paper towels.

say hey are you a skibidi sigma cuz you are rizz sigma

I have a boy I really like- What do I do?

Try walking up to her and saying hi then tell her your name and ask for hers then just continue the conversation then become friends and hope she'll start to like you bzckw

rizz her up bro get that thang

A tip that you will thank me for go to another cafe and forget her trust me i tried a girl on cafe she was like regular customer but it was an oof but I got one when studing focus on your dream and your dream girl will come after even if not then you deserve better and will get better now I am an successful buissness man I have like tow girl lingering and pestering me even tho they know that I have a gf and am engaged with her a . Have a successful life bro.

Just smile at her. The more you see her, up your game a little more, like a wink. Eventually, just walk up to her when she's not doing anything and strike up a conversation. Be sure to compliment her, and don't be afraid!

Wow! This is so cool! I Got tons of rizz, so I went up to a girl I keep seeing a scored a date! Thanks Wikihow!

I am a chubbier kid in high school and I have a crush on a girl that likes my best friend.what do I do?

I am a chubbier kid that has a crush on a girl but she doesn't like me because I'm chubbier and she likes my best friend.What do I do?

Be polite to people around you, preferably, bring a friend with you and try and catch her attention with a conversation that you can your friend are having. If you are feeling confident, offer to buy her a coffee or whatever she drinks/eats at the cafe. I wish you luck with this mysterious cafe girl.

studying is pretty attractive on its own. Shows that you're trying also make eye contact and smile if she doesn't smile back you either suck at smiling or she dosen't feel your rizz

i have a girl at my school that i have a crush on and she knows. what do i do

Well, I don’t exactly know, but there’s a really cute 7th grade boy in my grade named Shane. I want him to see me for who I am, but I don’t know how to. Does anyone have suggestions?

There is a really cute boy in my seventh grade class and I want him to see me for who I am, but I don’t know how to do that. I think he might be interested, but I’m too nervous to ask. Me and him are both shy, so we don’t really talk to each other. What should I do?

get to know her before making any moves

maybe keep making eye contact see if she looks back if she does its a good sign for you to maybe go up to her maybe sit with her if she's alone and compliment her and ask her about herself if she matches your energy your good to go if not maybe leave her alone and admire from afar. good luck

You should just ask her out

i like a boy but i dont know if he likes me back what do i do

As a girl, I'd say take it slow. Be subtle; don't go too fast. Take small steps so you don't intimidate her.

maybe become really good friends with her, like studying with her at the cafe! Then try to impress her

I feel the same way about a classmate. He's really cute, but I don't know if I could ever talk to him. I'm too bland and boring. We've only texted and I always initiate the conversation, so I know he doesn't like me back, but I need a way to intrigue him and make him think I am interesting.

lit bro you just gotta lock in, it aint deep bro, if you fail you fail and move on

Hello, I am an 8th grader and have one class with this girl that I like, we also both volunteer at the thrift store close by and we both know each other but I feel like every time I talk to her I get nowhere. Please help and give advice, I will take any advice whether it's harsh or not. (for ex. "you're too young")

just act like you don't notice her

There is this girl at my school who I like but already has a boyfriend. Could I use rizz for her to like me more?

Get her to notice you, be kind, offer her a coffee, she'll totes like u. I should know, i'm a girl...

This may be a little bold, but if you see her regularly at a cafe, maybe you can observe what she likes to order and buy her a coffee one day? Like if she always orders a mocha, buy a mocha for her and introduce yourself! If the cafe sells baked goods, then getting a little treat too can help sweeten the deal (no pun intended) :)

ok so i was dating this girl and she broke up with me, we are on good terms and she has this freind she has known for years,and she invited me over for christmas today, and i think i like her but i dont want to make my ex mad, what should i do?

Fall, and say you fell for her... Works everytime

I keep seeing this cute boy in my class, and he's nice to me and comes up to talk to me. But he's nice to everybody and when he's close to me, I feel special. But I want to talk to him and I don't know how. He defiantly acts different around me, but now classes are switching and I don't know if I'll ever see him again. How do I work up the courage to talk to him and what would I even say?!

Don’t be scared. Go up to her. Be your awkward self. Women find being a little cringe and awkward cute.

You should ask her for help on a question while you study

How do u tell if someone is lesbian or bi or straight please I need to know cause there's this really cute girl I like and I just stare at her from across the hall or get my friends to go up to her and try and find out but I can't tell if she is lesbian or not please help.🙃😛

Try introducing yourself to her, but first ask her if you've met before.

Maybe you should start with asking her something small like the time, then slowly build up a conversation with her. Then when you feel more comfortable and you think she does, ask her out on a date. You can do it! Remember, the worst she can say is no. ❤️

you should compliment her like I like your shirt you don't wanna come off too strong or subtle girls love compliments from guys

How Do I show this girl at my school I really like her. Even though were in a talking stage how do I make her understand that I truly have feelings for her.

just talk

You should sit at a table by her, and when she decides to read, you notice your similarities in reading.

If she reads, ask her about the book, if she has a mac book, ask her about it and tell her that you were thinking to buy it, etc, find small small things to talk about, then whenever you see her the next time, give her a smile and make eye contact (not in a creepy way), don't shy away from her, and be confident

i cant even rizz up anyone *sigh*

Try to make eye contact to her and also introduce yourself to her by talking

You should compliment her, and talk to her.

See what colors she is wearing and try to wear those colors. Those are her favorite colors she’s gonna gravitate to them and if you’re wearing them, she most likely will be looking at you. I think if you approach someone with a good heart and honesty and don’t act like a stalker you may, get to know her

It's all about non verbal communication, body language, facial expressions, eye contact, etc...your state of mind, unless you want to go the super direct approach but this all goes back to nonverbal communication, if you feel hesitant, shy, insecure, it won't work, women feel you & so if you're just having fun & enjoying life & don't care if it goes well with her, it will, it's tough, you get the girl by not caring if you get the girl. This question is too difficult to answer, since there are many variables but the most important is first, to read her nonverbal communication & keep it going or fall back if you're not getting good cues.

I have a crush in school that doesn’t know me. How do I win her over??

I'm not expert at getting to know people and I get feeling awkward but meeting someone is actually easier than we think, I wpuld say think of it like making a friend since your not sure you two would date just yet. And if your nervous keep mind that everyone's a stranger till you reach out just like your friends u already have all are strangers once you get to know them then they're not. But when you approach just be honest about yourself and go say or compliment or just be honest about how you're following a compliment you can strike up a conversation. It also depends on what type of person the girl is, every girl is a bit different so try to see what she's like to get an idea on how to approach... also if my advice is not helpful im sorry I'm a teen but i just want to help on random so I hope you don't mind this, I'm also a girl so yeh idk

so I like this guy that I'm not really supposed to but it's overwhelming. What do I do about it?

personally, I just make a lot of silly 'im into you, just kidding' jokes, and it works out.

Lesbian here, call her pretty, beautiful, gorgeous, or stunning but not to seductively and then ask her for her number and start talking

Just beleive in urself and ask her about what she is reading? Go with a flow and be comfortable talking with her. Consider her opinions and don't flirt at the first itself. You can do it gradually cuz that might make her feel that u r another same kind of boys. Show what u r passionate about urself and also never be yapping always. Let her speak. While speaking just have a deep eye contact. Never tell them ur good things toooo much. Let them know ur flaws and let them love you the way u are.

Well youve come to the right place.hi my name is promise

You could drop a book in front of her, near her, and see if she goes to pick it up.

Smile as you pass her by, don't push it by attempting to be overconfident. If she doesn't reciprocate, respect that and move on. If she believes she won't be able to live her life without you she'll let you know soon enough. Whatever you do, don't become a pest. Let her be.

A cafe is the best place to cajole a lady, all you do is offer her candy!

Think positive and trust urself. GO with her and try ur best to talk. Yeah eye to eye contact is good.. Don't be negative just wait the result after u talk... For me if u dnt do bad why not. Go with the flow 💪

Think positive and trust urself. GO with her and try ur best to talk. Yeah eye to eye contact is good.. Don't be negative just wait the result after u talk... For me if u dnt do bad why not. Go with the flow 💪

Pretend to drop something of value before her and wait for her action, if she calls your attention then, that should be an opportunity for you to start a discussion. Be smart.

Get close to her, drop something of value to you before her, whenever she calls your attention thank her, then start a discussion. Ensure you are well prepared for any outcome from her.

You should act normal and ask her if she wants to study with you.

I always pull hynas who are way outta my league economically and morally. Walk right up tell her you couldn't notice how fine she is and that you wanna take her out. She's not a alien.

Just keep it natural! Start with simple eye contact and a smile to gauge her response. If she seems receptive, try a casual conversation starter—maybe comment on the café’s atmosphere or ask if she studies there often. The key is confidence without overthinking. You don’t need a perfect line, just be friendly and genuine. You got this!

Start knowing each other then if both of you are comfortable with each other, then ask for her number. If it doesn't works then just talk and say the phrase babe so she is attracted.

Man or woman up and go talk to her

Talk to her.

I am going to ask my crush for his number, but I don't know how toooo!

Just go for it! Don't be shy, girls love a guy who makes the first move. You can quickly go from stranger to friend to lovers in a matter of months. Be yourself.

i will use this hip rizz to ask my crush out!

If I were you, I would walk up to her, and just say something like ¨Hi, I'm ________, what's your name?¨ or something like that. I'm a girl myself, and that would start a convo. I wouldn't be mean or think theyŕe weird at all!

I think you should ask her how was her day

Lol Am i right I mean dude just give it a shot

I would say the best way is to show her your dance moves.

Be confident but chill, make eye contact, and keep the conversation fun. Show genuine interest, listen well, and tease her a little to build chemistry.

In my personal opinion and experience you should just go for it,

Act natural Girls love guys who act like themselves don't try to impress them.

I'm a girl, and just act like yourself. Don't say things like 'Rizzy' or things like that, it annoys most girls. Get to know her. Make sure you don't just like her for what she looks like.

If you are a man just try to be friends with her first. Ask her about her interests. Accept no as no.

Smile like an idiot

You need to love yourself before you love someone. Make sure they're the one. Maybe pay for her coffee? Or just ask for her number.

As a girl I think you should go up to her unless there is a guy with her and ask if you can buy her something and then you can just talk to her after that. Go for it!!

honestly, from a girl's perspective, be polite. so many guys nowadays are rude or creepy, so make sure you're not overstepping any boundaries. compliment her outfit! we usually put a lot of time and effort into outfits, so she'll be so happy to hear that. good luck hun!

As a girl some hate it. Like ME!

this is coming from a girl who WISHES this would happen to her... just go up to her and introduce yourself and ask her name. and say something like I was wondering if you'd like to hang out sometime then if she says yes say can I have your number or snap or something......GOOD LUCK

DON'T RIZZ HER UP. Kid, no please don't that's not cute that's very cringe, cheesy, and weird. I say just go up to her in your best outfit and speak to her with confidence. Like what could go wrong? She says not? Ok, move on. Trust.

As a girl myself, I know what I would love. Buy "Someone a coffee" and stand there "Waiting" for them to arrive. After half an hour walk up to her and say. "Hey i was ment to meet my sibling, friend what ever but they canceled on me last minet would you like her coffee. Then talk to her about stiff and ask for her number

I think u should js not over think it and js like ask her name or "hows ur day going?"

Honestly, just be confident, relaxed, and respectful. Start a natural conversation, show genuine interest, and don’t overdo it with pickup lines; just be yourself. Compliment something specific (like her vibe or something she said) and pay attention to her body language. If she’s into it, you’ll feel the energy. If not, no pressure, keep it respectful and move on. Real rizz is all about connection, not performance.

Keep it chilled and respectful. Begin with genuine confidence, make her laugh, and show interest in what she says. Don’t force it; just be yourself, stay relaxed, and read the vibe. If she’s into it, you’ll know.

Ensure a smooth and respectful approach. Begin with a confident "Hey," offer a sincere compliment (steer clear of anything cheesy), and pose a fun or intriguing question. Aim to make her laugh, maintain eye contact, and avoid being excessive. Just connect, be genuine, and let the conversation unfold naturally. Combining confidence with positive energy equals great charisma.

Begin with confidence and respect. Say something casual like, “Hey, you seem cool, what’s your name?” Keep the conversation light, humorous, and sincere. Compliment her without going overboard, listen when she speaks, and match her energy. Genuine rizz is simply being yourself with a touch of charm.

Flirt!!!! We girls love boys who are cute, caring you just, and dorky so just be you

bro just need confidence MN

A girl stares at me sometimes, and bc we have choir, she asked my sister if I would like to join. Is that a hint that she likes me?

softly knock over her drink and offer to buy another one for her but then ask her out after and say some rizzy lines (you can find some on rizzgle).

you got to walk up to her and ask for her number rizzingly and say you gat a gyatt fr fr.

I got a girl and I want her to the dance but she dosint want to, what do I do

Bro I got so much rizz my crush should be drooling rn

i found out im the rizziest of them all

Do you have a crush

just compliment her.... make sure to walk her to her class and don't take no for an answer. be super assertive with you words, and never break eye contact. you got this girl;)

this works I could imidetly get my crush to like me

Talk to her, ask for her name or a phone number

Go up to her complement her and then say you're brighter than the son will you go out with me