How do you attract a Sagittarius man?

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03/04/25 10:45pm
Here are the best ways to attract a Sagittarius man in your life:
  • Be fun and spontaneous. Sagittarius men love an adventure!
  • Be a little mysterious to tap into his innate curiosity.
  • Challenge him to some lighthearted competition. He won't be able to say no.
  • If you like traveling, tell him! Sagittarius guys are travelers at heart.
  • Be independent. Sagittarius men love people who are self-reliant.
  • Wear clothes that make you feel attractive to show him your confidence.
We also love this insight from one of our Sagittarius readers: "As an archer male, I can confidently say that it's incredibly hot when you're willing to be yourself, even if you aren't sure we'll like you."
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Angel Eyedealism
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03/04/25 10:46pm
Sagittarius men want somebody who gives them space. If you trust them enough to give them space, they will come closer. If you try to control them or micromanage them in any way, they just can't tolerate it.
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Julia Topaz
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03/26/25 3:57am
Just go on a spontaneous trip! They usually love the outdoors, so taking them on a trip, on a hike, or somewhere fun will be great for them. They usually love physical activity. They also enjoy a good philosophical debate and will love to teach you something– they love teaching others. Otherwise, they're a pretty versatile sign. They tend to be quite spontaneous and are into anything that allows them to expand their mind, their vision, and see things from a bigger perspective. I think Sagittarius men tend to like a woman who either has a bit more fire or someone who is comfortable being led towards spontaneity and is open to new things.
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03/11/25 8:26am
Attracting a Sagittarius man is like guiding someone into a deep hypnotherapy session—you need excitement, freedom, and intellectual stimulation.

1. Be Adventurous– He’s drawn to spontaneity and new experiences. Suggest travel, outdoor activities, or trying something bold.
2. Keep Things Light & Fun– Avoid emotional heaviness early on. He loves humor, wit, and an easygoing vibe.
3. Stimulate His Mind – Engage in deep, philosophical conversations. He loves expanding his perspective.
4. Give Him Freedom—Clinginess is a turnoff. Let him chase you while you know you have your own exciting life.
5. Be Confident & Independent– He admires self-sufficient, passionate individuals who follow their path.

Much like Mary Lee LaBay’s approach to hypnotherapy, where personal empowerment and exploration are key, a Sagittarius man is drawn to those who are fearless in their self-discovery and open to life's endless possibilities.
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