What are the positive and negative traits of libra men?
I've gone out a couple times with a libra guy and I've heard conflicting opinions about libras so I'm curious what anyone can tell me about libra men generally and in relationships? are they cheaters or are they generally pretty loyal? do they prefer to pursue or be chased? how do you keep a libra guy interested/attract him? What are the pros and cons of dating a libra man?
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In my experience, Libras are the most devoted, engaged, honest, open, genuine, completely committed men possible. They love every last shred of you, good, bad or otherwise… they see who really are no matter what “state” you’re in, and love you because of your faults and flaws, and not not despite them. They definitely have a “standard” in mind for anybody they will consider being with, but once they decide you’ve ‘made the cut’, they accept that you’re human and not some flawless “ideal” who isn’t allowed to have your imperfect moments (ie not looking perfect, sick with a stomach bug or stuffed nose, bad hair days, flop clothes, etc). Once they know you’re CAPABLE of looking and acting “flawlessly” when needed, they get over the fact nobody is actually flawless, including you.
And I truly cannot understand anybody says they are “flaky”… in my experience, they are like rocks! I learned what “I’ve got you” meant for the first time in my life with my Libra… No matter where I was, or what I needed, DONE!!! if I sent a text and said “I need to talk to you”, the phone was ringing with an instant of hitting send… If I said “I need you“, the doorbell will be ringing before I could blink. If they heard or sensed any distress or shred of upsetment, sadness, stress, anxiety… FORGET IT!!! I couldn’t even tolerate that… and it ate him a lot if he couldn’t fix it or make it better for me. If I was in any kind of trouble…flat tire, broken leg, didn’t matter!!! Flew to my side instantly.
And there is absolutely no tolerance for anybody hurting me… At all… Under any circumstances. At times I feared for people who he even perceived as having hurt me in any way. And there was absolutely absolutely nothing he wouldn’t do for me… NOTHING.
I don’t think I ever knew what it meant to be “adored”, how I SHOULD AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED AND LOVED, OR even what being “loved” really meant until along came my Libra. I’ll never again accept anything less from anybody in life.
Maybe I lucked out! But if that’s the case, I’ve never been luckier.
PS I’m an Aquarius… Pretty true Aquarius, but not at all distant or “needing my space“… That is one part has never applied to me. My Libra never wanted to be without me…and I LOVED it
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And I truly cannot understand anybody says they are “flaky”… in my experience, they are like rocks! I learned what “I’ve got you” meant for the first time in my life with my Libra… No matter where I was, or what I needed, DONE!!! if I sent a text and said “I need to talk to you”, the phone was ringing with an instant of hitting send… If I said “I need you“, the doorbell will be ringing before I could blink. If they heard or sensed any distress or shred of upsetment, sadness, stress, anxiety… FORGET IT!!! I couldn’t even tolerate that… and it ate him a lot if he couldn’t fix it or make it better for me. If I was in any kind of trouble…flat tire, broken leg, didn’t matter!!! Flew to my side instantly.
And there is absolutely no tolerance for anybody hurting me… At all… Under any circumstances. At times I feared for people who he even perceived as having hurt me in any way. And there was absolutely absolutely nothing he wouldn’t do for me… NOTHING.
I don’t think I ever knew what it meant to be “adored”, how I SHOULD AND DESERVE TO BE TREATED AND LOVED, OR even what being “loved” really meant until along came my Libra. I’ll never again accept anything less from anybody in life.
Maybe I lucked out! But if that’s the case, I’ve never been luckier.
PS I’m an Aquarius… Pretty true Aquarius, but not at all distant or “needing my space“… That is one part has never applied to me. My Libra never wanted to be without me…and I LOVED it
Thank you so much for this comment. An Aries woman here just started to date a Libra man for the first time in my life and I already see myself falling for this man. He is so far the best of all men I have ever been with and that is so many. Thank you , this comment really uplifted my spirit. I have been craving the exact love from a man a devotion you just described
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Libras don't cheat when they are in love. From what she describes he's actually fallen. Libras cheat when they are in a relationship they did not whole heartedly want to be in. There is actually a deeper level.
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I just started talking to a libra man need some pointers please and I’m an Aquarius thanks in advance 😊
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Hello. I'm an Aquarius woman and I dated a Libra man for 7 years. I found him to be very indecisive and inconsistent with his emotions. He was also very dishonest. Always trying to please everybody, without actually pleasing anybody. It was exhausting and I eventually had to call it quits. He never really committed to our relationship. He always had one foot out the door. On the surface he was charming and he made me feel special but it was actually just smokescreens and mirrors. I would never date a Libra man again....
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I am Libra, Libra want more and more of you. If you intend to restrict us from our fantasy with you we will not hate you but drift from you. We will keep you for who you are and check elsewhere. In as much we will still give you time to have a rethink while we are on the search. We hate selfishness . We want to explore with you. Not with someone else, if you still feel stubborn to comply we find a way for fulfilling that desire while we let you remain who you are.
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That’s amazing!!!! I am an Aquarius woman, I have heard Libra man is supposed to be one of our TOP matches.
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Libra is ruled by Venus, and Libra men tend to be very attractive people, and being in a relationship is extremely important to them. However, Libras flip flop, so when a Libra man is in a relationship, he wants to be out of it and when he's out of it, all he thinks about is being in one. They're constantly trying to balance things. In a relationship with a Libra guy, you definitely want to appeal to his sense of aesthetics, you definitely want to be not rude or gross around a Libra man. He gets turned off by somebody who’s coarse, wants a woman that is refined and intellectual, because he’s an intellectual. It's an Air sign. The Air sign loves intellectuals, but it's a Venus-based sun sign. So he definitely wants a woman who is attractive, but also intelligent.
You can tell a Libra man is playing games if he becomes cold and distant, or not engaged. If he goes off by himself, then that's a really bad sign, because he's supposed to be balancing his energy with your energy. Libras find themselves through their partner. So if he becomes evasive, that means he's not interested in you. Libras are so polite, they won't necessarily come out and say they don't want to be with you, but they'll do these evasive maneuvers.
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You can tell a Libra man is playing games if he becomes cold and distant, or not engaged. If he goes off by himself, then that's a really bad sign, because he's supposed to be balancing his energy with your energy. Libras find themselves through their partner. So if he becomes evasive, that means he's not interested in you. Libras are so polite, they won't necessarily come out and say they don't want to be with you, but they'll do these evasive maneuvers.
I've been in a relationship with a Libra for over twenty years
All of what described in this article is TRUE to life. Your comment is Absolutely true.
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All of what described in this article is TRUE to life. Your comment is Absolutely true.
I have not found that true I am the least interested in relationships Focus on work
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Some Libras I've met are incredibly kind and charismatic. Others are manipulative and hurtful. It's hard to say for sure what your experience will be with Libras because, like with any other sign, there's such a range. I do find that Libras tend to be indecisive and flaky, which can make it hard to get into a committed relationship with them.
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Really struggled with mixed signals when I was involved with a Libra man. I couldn't tell if he liked me or not because he would sometimes be attentive but then sometimes be distant, and he wasn't great at expressing what he wanted. It was frustrating and I ended up breaking things off with him.
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I feel like the Libra man I just met is sending mixed signals. Thankfully my heart hasn't fallen for him as we have only been out on a couple of dates and have known each other for 2 weeks so far, but with these 2 dates and messaging each other for 2 weeks, he does this hot/cold stuff where he is attentive for a few days then draws back and it's crickets. Sometimes he initiates contact with me, and sometimes he doesn't. With our 2 dates he says he had a great time and wants to see me again, but then when the opportunity comes up he says he needs to check his schedule to see his availability first, and so far he has had me pick the activity for the 2 dates instead of him choosing what to do or him planning it.
While I don't mind being a team player in a relationship and helping figure out the logistics of a date, the fact that I have planned these 2 would tell me he isn't interested in me all that much. Granted we are in the beginning stages of getting to know each other as friends, some of his mannerisms are sending mixed signals--he has paid for both dates even though I offered to get my own bill, he smiles at me and encourages me, he actually talks with me and we hold great conversations in person, he listens to what I'm saying and makes an effort to understand my feelings and remembers small things from our conversations, but then the flip side of that is saying he wants to see me again and then going cold on me or not committing to any plans, even with adequate time to make it happen. So yeah idk. Might be ok to just have him as a friend.
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While I don't mind being a team player in a relationship and helping figure out the logistics of a date, the fact that I have planned these 2 would tell me he isn't interested in me all that much. Granted we are in the beginning stages of getting to know each other as friends, some of his mannerisms are sending mixed signals--he has paid for both dates even though I offered to get my own bill, he smiles at me and encourages me, he actually talks with me and we hold great conversations in person, he listens to what I'm saying and makes an effort to understand my feelings and remembers small things from our conversations, but then the flip side of that is saying he wants to see me again and then going cold on me or not committing to any plans, even with adequate time to make it happen. So yeah idk. Might be ok to just have him as a friend.
I start dating a libra man and lord the hot and cold ( I’m a Taurus w) the not answering questions. An amazing man…. Smh
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My Libra man was a serial cheater unfortunately, and too late I found out he had cheated on all his partners and cheated on his current partner of 8 years for 5 years before she found out but she kept him. I gave up it became too much to deal with.
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In my experience, Libra men aren't the most loyal of the signs. Of course, loyalty depends on the person, but the Libra guys I've interacted with have been at least a little selfish and lost interest easily. Yes, I did get cheated on. I'm not saying that it will happen to you, but I'd keep an eye out for it.
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They don’t have your back. Because of their desire for things to be balanced they will not stand up for what is right when the chips are down. I wasted 37 years of my life with a Libra.
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